Let's talk about babies

Holy cow. My last blog entry was September 22? Yikes. I knew I was behind in blogging, but I had no idea things were that bad. Sorry, guys. My excuses are good ones, but still...that's a little more extreme than expected. I don't think I've ever skipped an entire month.

As you might guess, my new trip into motherhood is the reason for my blog silence. The little guy is adorable, thriving, and much-loved. When my husband's paternity leave ended, I became the full-time caregiver during the week, and wow! I adore being a mom, but it's amazing how one small person can take up so much time. I have more time on weekends and evenings, but by that point, I'm frantically scrambling to catch up on things like my work, the gym, grooming, cleaning, etc.

Which brings me to a very important point.

There are three questions/requests I'm frequently asked: #1 - Will you write another Vampire Academy book? (I don't know...maybe years down the road, no guarantees...in the meantime, we have Bloodlines!), #2 - Will you write a book from Dimitri's POV? (No), and #3 - Can you have Rose get pregnant and have a baby with Dimitri and/or Adrian?

Regarding #3. I've long said the answer to that is no--at least, it is so long as I'm writing about a teenage heroine. I know people who've had babies in their teens and have had wonderful outcomes and beautiful babies. They wouldn't trade that for anything, and I don't blame them. In general, though, I'd recommend waiting until one is out of her teens, if it all possible. Rose is 18 at the end of the VA series. She's young. She's just become an adult, and I feel she needs to spend some time as an adult before having children. If she weren't dedicated to killing vampires, I'd encourage her to get a job or go to college. So, my stance is the same: no. I'm not going to have my 18-year-old heroine get pregnant.

And now, I have another reason for not writing about Rose having a baby: it would be a boring book.

Now, don't get me wrong. My baby isn't boring. Taking care of him isn't boring. I love it. But lately, it's all I do. And if Rose had a baby, that's all she'd do too. There'd be no daring Strigoi hunts, dangerous flirtations, exotic parties, or Court intrigues. You'd be reading pages that resemble my life, like how I spent half the day rocking the baby to sleep yesterday while watching Star Trek: Voyager reruns, in the hopes of getting him to sleep. Again, I don't mind spending my days like that, but I'm not sure you want to read about Rose doing that. Her having a baby sounds romantic and exciting, and in many ways, it is--but probably not in the way some people imagine. For Rose to continue her action-packed lifestyle, she'd have to find some pretty serious daycare...and then there'd be no baby in the book anyway.

So, there you have it. No babies for teenage heroines, only thirty-something authors. Motherhood is awesome, but even more awesome with a solid job and reliable health insurance.
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Published on November 01, 2011 19:14
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message 1: by Bron (new)

Bron Congratulations on your little one, and hope he brings you years and years of joy!!


message 2: by Allison (new)

Allison Oh gosh, I love you(: Your blogs always make me smile! Your a fantastic writer(:


message 3: by Onix (new)

Onix Martinez Congrats on your baby boy!!!! God Bless your Family!!!!


message 4: by Pete (new)

Pete Congratulations on your baby. Babies are awesome, I've delivered 322 so far, and always tease the mom that I'll see her baby's face before she does (by about 10 seconds);) Good health to you and your family!


message 5: by Jessica (new)

Jessica Congrats on the baby and I agree with you on the baby issue with Rose I was a teen mom and it felt like I was missing out on so much don't get me wrong I love my son but it doesn't make life exciting in the Rose sense!


message 6: by Amber (new)

Amber Congrats on your new addition! I share your view on teenage pregnancy and thank you for sticking to your guns and being a strong role model:)


message 7: by Emily V (new)

Emily V I agree about rose but if she did have a baby it would have to be Adrians wouldnt it? Or some othe Moroi? Because Dhampirs cant have children together


message 8: by Saturnus (new)

Saturnus what is your babies name??


message 9: by Kala (new)

Kala Congratulations! And totally agree about the teenage heroines having babies!


message 10: by Diana (new)

Diana I totally agree!


message 11: by Kuljit (new)

Kuljit Congrats on the babe. What's his name?


message 12: by Amanda (new)

Amanda Roswell How wonderful for you! I wish you and your growing family the best of luck! And, as an add-on to you answer for #3, Rose and Dimitri can't even have a baby! The people asking that obviously don't remember that dhampirs can't have babies together ^^;

And, as you said, a teenager having babies isn't exactly a great idea. I have a friend who had a baby when she was seventeen and it took over her life. I don't think Rose would be very happy about that, not with her "I have to fix the world" attitude, lol :

Good luck to you and your family! I can't wait for The Golden Lily to come out!


message 13: by Mara (new)

Mara congrats on the baby :) and here's another question : will you at least do a story of rose and dimitri from rose's POV ?


message 14: by Elizabeth (new)

Elizabeth Aw, yay! Babies can be really hard to handle, but they're such a blessing, too! Congrats!

BTW: a book in Demitri's POV would be REALLY cool- maybe it could be a book for when you have some free time, like you could just work on it when you get bored as a side project, but not have a specific time for when it gets done. Like, when it's finished, then it's finished, kind of like freely writing for fun (:


message 15: by Jessica (new)

Jessica Emigdio i really love the books!! they were amazing!
so a book in demitris pov would be great! i would totally read it
-congrats on the baby!!:)


JoJo - JJJ (Jo Anna) Janesko Congrats on motherhood I am thrilled you are enjoying it. It is for certain a hard job and full time but more rewarding than anything else in this world. In regards to your pressing questions. I at least think it would be great if Rose and Dimitri married. You don't see marriage happen very often in paranormal romance. Just a thought.. she can still be a bad ass and married.


message 17: by Alessandra (new)

Alessandra Castillo Congrats on the baby!!! Loving the Georgina Kincaid Series! If I ever become a writer, I would love to write like you...


message 18: by Jen (new)

Jen Same! Can't wait for the Golden Lily and always got in trouble at school when reading vampire academy and bloodlines lol couldn't put it down!


message 19: by Jen (new)

Jen Omg I go to all girl school too! Thats exactly what me and my friend say!!! Lol bout the teacher's. I really hope Richelle Mead writes more about Dimitri and Adrian in the Golden Lily. Can't wait and Luv Richelle Mead


message 20: by Emily V (new)

Emily V Same i cnt wait 4 golden lily


message 21: by Jen (new)

Jen Thank god! On no baby book, I do not enjoy children and definately do not want to read about teenage girls that no have babies....give me a break.


message 22: by Jen (new)

Jen Thank god! On no baby book, I do not enjoy children and definately do not want to read about teenage girls that no have babies....give me a break.


message 23: by Bibliophile (new)

Bibliophile  Booklover aaaaaawwwwwwwwwwww congrats on your new baby. i bet u he is so cute. what is his name? i hope motherhood is great for you. ^-^


message 24: by Rebecca (new)

Rebecca Congrats! I agree with you on your points! I was wondering if you were planning on writing any more books set in Georgina Kincaids world? Not specifically about her, but maybe about Roman???


message 25: by Natalie (new)

Natalie Can we see a photo of your family? You, your husband and your baby? Thanks:)


message 26: by Kuljit (new)

Kuljit I agree with Rebecca. I cried after what happened to Roman. All I kept on thinking was "But he's one of the good guys". Guess there are always some casualties. It was a great book though...way to end Georgie's story.


message 27: by Cel (new)

Cel Jel Richelle, It is okay to let the house/apartment get messy if it needs to when you have a young one. The time will fly, even if it does not seem to be yet. May you continue to really enjoy your time together, and do not forget to read to him every chance you get, even when feeding him, or when putting him to sleep.


message 28: by Liz Barrons-Kattalakis-Quiakides-Tehrror (last edited Nov 20, 2011 06:23PM) (new)

Liz Barrons-Kattalakis-Quiakides-Tehrror Congrats on the baby boy!!! I have one myself (the light of my life)and totally agree in giving Rose and Dimitry a chance in enjoying their relationship and dangerous lifestyle for a long while. Enjoy motherhood and please don't stop writing, I love your books!!!!!


Liz Barrons-Kattalakis-Quiakides-Tehrror Pete wrote: "Congratulations on your baby. Babies are awesome, I've delivered 322 so far, and always tease the mom that I'll see her baby's face before she does (by about 10 seconds);) Good health to you and yo..."

WAO Pete, that's amazing!!!! How do you keep count? It must be incredible to be able to see and help new life as part of your job... I think is wonderful to be a part of it even if is only for a moment!!!!!


message 30: by Rose (new)

Rose Hathaway congrats on the baby!!
- And i don't think it will be healy for Dimitri and Rose to have a child,since i'm currently pregnant to Dimitri's 3rd one!!..haha..joking!
xoxo all the best Rose.


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