I just saw a post on Instagram where a beautiful soul (I’ll just call her Soul) posted a cool picture of herself using a fun filter.

Someone responded to her, in a well-meaning way it seems, that the reality is more beautiful than the filter. This person added “I’m an expert.”

Soul then responded that reality is boring. She wanted to be fun!

And again, she was told that by the “expert” that reality was more fun and less boring than the filter. And again… “I’m AN EXPERT. Trust my...