We all live on this same planet, but let me tell you, that no two people are looking at the same world. No two realities are identical. Every person sees a world based upon that person's own character, mind, personality, childhood, history, memories, brain chemistry, blood type, so on and so forth. 

I have learned that it's best to keep this in mind when meeting anyone at all. We may all look like the same species on the outside; but no two people see the same exact world! We experience moments based upon a million factors that are unique to our own biology and psyche. 

Inhabiting the same exact moment, two people could be experiencing entirely unrelated feelings and thoughts. If we could only keep this in mind at all times, our ability to think on our feet and to move our souls accordingly, would take herculian leaps! 

But look, this is where love becomes very interesting: we suddenly feel so seen and so heard, when another person stands with us in a moment and shares an experience identical to ours, or at least very similar to ours, and it is in that fusing of "channels" into one frequency, that we have found the word "love" to describe it. 

We lose love when the frequencies diverge again. Then we come up with so many reasons of what "love really means" in order to help us stay together. But the truth is, we are all electrical beings, pulsing with soundwaves and photons; all of our interactions and everything that drives us; all of that is determined by frequencies and charges. 

We would all like to ultimately meet someone whose electrical currents fuse permanently and seemlessly with our own. Some do find it, while others never will. For whatever reasons they fabricate or that were frabricated for them; some never will. 

It is in the shared vision of what is in front of us, around us, between us and within us, that we find what it means to belong. And that is why heartbreak is unbearable; because heartbreak is actually a fuse that's been cut. Where do you connect to now? Where do you ground now? Who will look out over the streets with you now and light the roads with the same luminousity? 

And this is why we look for someone. And that is what loneliness means. Loneliness is just the desire to validate one's information on this world we all inhabit! If nobody else is inhabiting the same moment with you, how do you know that anything you touch and feel is even real? But what's real becomes real only when someone else experiences it with us and like us. 

The desire to be loved is actually just the desire to confirm our existence. To be able to say, "Yes, I am here, I am really here, and this rock flinging itself in a dark space, around a star, is real. I am in fact alive." Love is the confirmation of life and that's the only reason it exists. 

Too many of us fail to find this, so we make up all these other reasons instead."Love to fit in" ; "love because it's time to"; "love because it makes sense"; "love because you're supposed to". It all falls short of what all of us know in our hearts to be true love. The confirmation of our existence, the confirmation of our souls.