In our world, many of us were taught that being decisive is a desirable trait. When we look to popular media for representations of successful people, whether they be leaders, business people, or even athletes, do they not tend to be represented as strong willed, clear, and single minded? Would it not be strange to see a political leader or CEO confess to being very confused and unclear? 

Clearly, we are often given the message that confusion is something to be avoided. Clarity is highly prized...