Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

“G.L., I met a guy while trying to work on myself, and I had sex too fast… how can I reset this?”

“G.L. I met, I think I met my husband, but he lives in different cities, and he’s starting to grow  distant… how can I reset this?”

“G.L., I met this mark who’s insanely wealthy, but I may have turned him off, and he’s no longer responding… how can I reset this?”

Every month, I get questions about how to reset situations, ranging from the dating stage to the relationship stage and even the sponsor or trick stage. What you’re all telling me is simple:

The moment you get a good thing going with a man, you fumble and fuck it up because you don’t know how to date in power and glue a man to you.

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Every year, you claim it’s going to be different, then here you are in a whole new year, repeating the same mistakes. Your brain no longer believes the affirmations that come out of your mouth because you let yourself down the moment some guy gasses you with attention. There's not a problem with the dating world. There's a problem with how you THINK. Everything in this universe is mental, and you're broken!

Every time this world tests you, you mess up. Every time you have a chance to prove you’re different from the OLD YOU, you fuck up again. Your life is a constant struggle of “it never works out.” You were supposed to be special, beloved but here you are nodding along with all the other heartbroken Basicas on your timeline because you can relate with their struggle. Special women use their past mistakes as a blueprint for ascension. Basic women stay stuck in the mud, content with taking L’s.

Do you really want to reset your past mistakes, or are you just talking out of your ass? If you don’t want this power to get what you want, then move the fuck off this page and go scroll through TikTok. BUT if you’re ready to read, apply, and make this year your year. Then here is a 5 STEP survival guide for the top situations you’re going to run up against in 2025…

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Step #1 You’re Too Old To Believe In Fairy Tales

"Going out isn't everything. We talk like twice a day when he's not busy."

Yeah, okay.... "Not busy" doing what exactly? Fucking his other girl? Spending time with the family he's hiding? Earth to Basica: Your entire dating life is built around men who don't see you as a priority. These guys throw a crumb of attention your way and confuse it with a full-course meal because it's rare that you meet someone you like. This Cinderella delusion is a mental disease where you think this man who you talk to, yet rarely see, is going to ride in and fully commit. Your work life is boring. Your friends are boring. Your entire life is uneventful and dry, and these men know it. Waiting on their text is all you have, so why the hell would he give a weak-ass woman like you more when he has that kind of power over you?

Texting or talking without taking you out is not a relationship! Stop letting these men play in your face and keep you open with an "I miss you." What does he miss? The emojis you send? If he wanted you, he would put in the time, effort, and money to take you out. Your dizzy ass is over there trying to match your first name with his last name because you think you're wifey. Do you understand how men treat wifey types? They clear schedules, they plan dates, they surprise, and they spoil because special women are always worth going the extra mile for! These dudes are quick to send you to voice mail, yet you still call them "bae".

Stop carrying people on your shoulders in the name of love. If the energy isn't mutual recognize that it's time to let go, not live in the delusion of "One day they'll treat me better." You're doing all the work, and it won't pay off in the end. There's nothing wrong with being a romantic and loving the concept of being in love. But there is a huge fucking problem with falling fast for people who will NEVER be what you're hoping.

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Let me shift to another area of fuck ups: The Long distance relationships. There are women who meet the perfect guy, and then suddenly he moves away, and now his absence destroys your common sense to the point where you stop dating and fixate on some guy who will never save himself for you, wait for you, nor come chasing after you. I've been in a few Long Distance situations, and let me break down how we men think. First off, a man never...

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