Rollo Tomassi > Quotes

“Communicate with your behavior. Never overtly tell a woman anything. Allow her to come to the conclusions you intend. Her imagination is the best tool in your Game toolbox. Learn how to use it.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Whatever you cannot say ‘No’ to is your master and makes you it’s slave.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Booty is so strong that there are dudes willing to blow themselves up for the highly unlikely possibility of booty in an other dimension. There are no chicks willing to blow themselves up for a penis.” –Joe Rogan”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Women who want to fuck will find a way to fuck.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Nothing is more threatening yet simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man
who is aware of his own value to women.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Men believe that love matters for the sake of it. Women love opportunistically.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Women despise a man who needs to be told to be dominant, told to be confident, told to be anything they have on their list of prerequisites for their intimacy.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“This is the single greatest failing of average frustrated chumps: they vomit out everything about themselves, divulging the full truth of themselves to women in the mistaken belief that women desire that truth as a basis for qualifying for their intimacy or enduring commitment. Learn this now: Women NEVER want full disclosure.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“You cannot ‘tell’ women anything, they must be led to your conclusion and be made to think that they are the ones coming to it with their own devices – preferably by way of her imagined feminine intuition.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“30 is also the general age at which men (should) become aware of their own, longer-lasting sexual market value and potential.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Great politicians, military leaders, businessmen, salesmen to be sure, and of course master PUAs all use covert communications to achieve their goals.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Power isn’t financial resources, status or influence over others; power is the degree over which you control your own life, and right now, if I’ve just described you, you are powerful.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“People resort to denial when recognizing that the truth would destroy something they hold dear.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Everything a man experiences, every social conditioning he receives from the earliest age, every accepted social norm and every expectation of him to qualify as the definition of a mature adult Man in contemporary society is designed to serve a female imperative.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Always remember, women care less about the content of what’s being communicated and more about the context (the how) of what’s being communicated. Never buy the lie that good communication is the key to a good relationship with out considering how and what you communicate. Women are naturally solipsistic. Your ‘feelings’ aren’t important to her until you make them important for her.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“The guy with the capacity to call a woman’s bluff with a confidence that implies she is to be worthy of him rather than the other way around is the Man to be competed for.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“but far too few religious men have the perseverance to stay objective in their decision to ‘hold out’ and overlook major character flaws in women they’d like to be their spouse in a furious rush to marry them and get to “the sex part.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Commenter Peregrine John summed it up: We want to relax. We want to be open and honest. We want to have a safe haven in which struggle has no place, where we gain strength and rest instead of having it pulled from us. We want to stop being on guard all the time, and have a chance to simply be with someone who can understand our basic humanity without begrudging it. To stop fighting, to stop playing the game, just for a while. We want to, so badly. If we do, we soon are no longer able to.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“God curse Carl Jung’s rotten corpse to hell for ever convincing popular culture that each sex had equal, but unexpressed, measures of feminine and masculine energies.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“The girl who bangs the hot guy at the foam party in Cancun on Spring Break within 5 minutes of meeting him is the same girl who wants you to believe that they’ll only fuck one guy at a time and then after commitment.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Never under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“How do we know she’s a strong woman? The first cue is she communicates in an overt, information centered, masculine manner. She communicates like a man.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“behavior is the only reliable evidence of motivation.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“You are who you believe you are, and you are who she perceives you to be.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Overtly relating this to a guy entirely defeats his credibility as a genuinely dominant male. The guy she wants to fuck is dominant because that’s ‘the way he is’ instead of who she had to tell him to be. Observing the process will change it. This is the root function of every shit test ever devised by a woman. If masculinity has to be explained to a man, he’s not the man for her.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“It’s the man who remains in touch with his masculine side, the guy who, despite all of pop-culture denigrating and ridiculing his gender and the very aspects that make it a necessary, positive strength of human society, will endure and steadfastly resist the influences that want to turn it into something it was never intended; it’s this guy and his confidence that women all over the world find irresistible.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“Most women believe that their pussies are sufficient to hold their men in thrall for a lifetime, but as a woman’s SMV declines and a Man’s appreciates their confidence in this form of leverage falls off, thus forcing them to adopt new schema for controlling the fear of loss.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“If you’re at all familiar with Charles Bukowski, you’ll know he was one of the last true son’s of bitches – the unapologetic epitome of gloriously arrogant self-concern and masculine independence. For what he lacked in polish he made up for in talent and a brutal honesty that could never be acknowledged in the feminine centric social order of today. In the mid 60’s he was a feral, instinctually Red Pill Man”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male – Preventive Medicine

“Covert communication frustrates us every bit as much as overt communication frustrates women. Our language has no art to it for them, that’s why we seem dumb or simple at best to women.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male

“It’s the guy who understands that it’s gender differences, not androgynous similarities, that make us strong. It’s the Man who can see that the sexes were meant to be complimentary, not adversarial, who passes this shit test. Gender redefinition, as a social convention, serves as an Alpha filtering mechanism.”
― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male