Two weeks ago while vacationing in Hawaii I literally came to my senses.

It was one of those evenings when the moon hovered full and luminous, painting the harbor with a silver brush stroke. I sat on the lanai with my husband and two friends, enjoying the view and the cool breeze that kissed my forehead. A friend was playing the guitar and singing. In between songs we laughed and told jokes and every now and then just sighed as if life couldn’t get any better than this.

My husband had just bought