Do You Need to Knock on the Door of Faerie Nine Times? An Elven Perspective.
” . . . on the surface, this bit of lore just seems to be a metaphoric recognition that a relationship with the faeries, as with every other person, requires a bit of effort and also demands continuous energy over time. . . . While we never consciously meant to confirm this bit of lore, somehow, we instinctually did so. So, is there any truth to this faerie lore? Indeed, there seems to be.”
In Signe Pike’s book Faery Tale: One Woman’s Search for Enchantment in a Modern World, there is a chapter entitled ‘Knock Nine Times on the Faery Door’, which presents the idea that there is faerie lore that says that to enter Faerie or gain the attention of the faeries that one must knock nine times, which is to say three sets of three.
Now, we must admit that we Silver Elves have never encountered this particular bit of lore previously or, at least, don’t remember having done so and, as you may know, we approach nearly all the ancient and modern lore with a bit of skepticism particularly since much of it is not written by the fae themselves. It is not that we disregard it automatically, but we question it for its validity in modern times and note its value or lack thereof for those of us elfae living in the modern world or post-modern world or whatever. And, on the surface at least, we find this bit of lore rather questionable.
First, from an elven perspective, the whole idea of Faerie having doors is a bit silly in a fashion. Faerie is not a house or building and its borders are composed of mist and are ephemeral in nature. So it cannot be knocked on in a literal sense in the way that some people have a secret knock so that their friends in hiding will recognize it is them banging on the door and will give them entry. Dah, dah ah, dah dah, dah dah. Now, Signe Pike understood and made it clear that she meant this in a metaphorical way and not that one literally had to knock on a door but rather that one had to endure and keep trying to contact the fae folk over and over again. Her point was really about her own tendency to give up and cease her search and she wasn’t indicating that there was an actual door to knock upon. And here we certainly must agree. The path of the Elven Way, like all spiritual paths, demands perseverance and even life itself requires that we endure whether we are spiritually orient folks or not.
Nearly every relationship also takes some effort and perseverance, especially in cases where you wish to meet and form a relationship with those (the faeries in her case) that aren’t, for their own part, seeking you out as a friend or acquaintance. This is not entirely unlike those who are seeking romance with someone and keep hanging out in places that they are known to frequent in the hopes of encountering them there and ‘accidentally’ bumping into them. OMG, what a coincidence seeing you here!
So, on the surface, this bit of lore just seems to be a metaphoric recognition that a relationship with the faeries, as with every other person, requires a bit of effort and also demands continuous energy over time. This remains the case when one is actually aware of being elfae of some sort and wishes to progress upon this path. It takes effort, and that effort and its effects are not to be achieved all in one go but in bursts and advances over time, much in the same way that education is a continuous endeavor to learn and understand. And by doing so become more knowledgeable and, hopefully, enlightened and having, hopefully moments of true realization and comprehension on new and greater levels.
And yet, as it happens, well over a decade ago, we came upon this greeting card that contained a spell for prosperity in it. According to the directions, we were supposed to take three coins and say the incantation provided three times over it and then leave the coins out in the world to spread the magic and bring prosperity to us. We thought, why don’t we say the incantation three times three, wait three months and say it again in that way, and then wait another three months and do it once more? Which is what we actually did. However, we never put the coins out. We’ve had that magic brewing on one of our magic tables for all these years hence. And if we ever find where we put it (somewhere in our eald, for there are magic tables all over our eald), we’ll probably release it.
Also, over a decade ago, we took a course in Qigong from a Master of that Art and one of the things we learned was to draw down the energy from the sky to the three dantians. Since then, for the last half dozen years or so, we have used this technique in two of the magic rituals we do daily, which involve: 1.) a combination of reiki and elfin spirit sign language from our book Elfin Spirit Talk and 2.) the second technique uses a combination of elfin spirit sign language and qigong where we draw down the energy to the three dantians. Only, we draw it down three times three. Knocking on spirit’s door nine times as it were. And all of this long before we even ever heard of Signe Pike’s book.
While we never consciously meant to confirm this bit of lore, somehow, we instinctually did so. So, is there any truth to this faerie lore? Indeed, there seems to be.
Kyela,
The Silver Elves
https://silverelves.angelfire.com

“The mystery of Faerie is found in everything, from the open doorway to the faerie ring,
all is art and magic bathed in beauty fair, and the breath and depth of it as wide as you do dare.”
— The Silver Elves
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https://thesilverelves.blogspot.com/2018/07/whats-difference-between-elves-and.html
Are There Actually Portals to Elfin?
https://silverelves.wordpress.com/2019/12/03/are-there-actually-portals-to-elfin
When Faerie Returns Will There Still be a Race of Men? And Are Elves Halflings, Part Mankind, due to Manifesting in Human Bodies?
https://silverelves.wordpress.com/2020/07/19/when-faerie-returns-will-there-still-be-a-race-of-men-and-are-elves-halflings-part-man-due-to-manifesting-in-human-bodies
Is It the Elf Star or the Faerie Star? And Who First Adopted the Seven-Pointed Star as the Elf Star and What Does It Mean?
https://silverelves.wordpress.com/2017/11/01/is-it-the-elf-star-or-the-faerie-star-and-who-first-adopted-the-seven-pointed-star-as-the-elf-star
What is the Difference Between the Elven Way and the Fairy Faith?
https://silverelves.wordpress.com/2018/09/09/what-is-the-difference-between-the-elven-way-and-the-fairy-faith
How Do We Elves Relate to the Seasonal Courts of Faerie?
https://silverelves.wordpress.com/2021/06/26/how-do-we-elves-relate-to-the-seasonal-courts-of-faerie

“When you come to the end of the road and you think you can’t go on,
the door to Faerie opens up as the mists give way to the dawn.”
— The Silver Elves.
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And more on one of our Silver Elves books mentioned in the article above. . . . .
ELFIN SPIRIT TALK:
Elven Sign Language for Magic and Spell Casting
For years now, we Silver Elves have been using a sign language we’ve created to go along with our magic and our spells. ELFIN SPIRIT TALK: Elven Sign Language for Magic and Spell Casting, shares with you, dear Kindred, this magic of hand movements. You can see our love of using hand gestures in our oracles and magic reflected, in part, in our book Elven Geomancy where whatever result you get as an oracle also has a series of hand movements combined with mudras. These mudras will either greatly increase the power of the oracle and its prediction if you like what you receive and want that outcome to occur, or decrease its potency if the reply from the oracle was contrary to what you wanted. This being done as a way, therefore, of warding off disaster or undesired consequences and moving the energy in another more positive and desired direction. We have carried this practice over into our daily spell casting and in doing so have created a number of spells for ours’elves that we do every day with hand signs similar to American Sign Language in certain ways, only specifically for magical use. After all, magic uses the language of symbols for communicating with spirits. And thus you will find in Elfin Spirit Talk that we have created word signs in the fashion of sign language for the deaf and hearing impaired.
PART ONE of Elfin Spirit Talk has 100 elven spells of magic created in both English and Arvyndase and they cover most situations in life about which you might wish to perform magic, including ten spells in each of ten categories: Protection, Prosperity, Good Fortune, Longevity and Healing, Happiness, Power, Knowledge, Love and Relationship, Wisdom and Spirituality, and Creativity. Once you have found just the right spell in one of these categories that you need for your particular individual situation, you may then go to Part Two of the book and look up each word in the spell to find the Silver Elf Magical Sign Language to go with it.
PART TWO is set up in alphabetical order like a dictionary, so it is English to Silver Elf Magical Sign Language. We include in this section the directions for using the elf sign language to go with the magic spell that you have selected from the first section of this book. You will be looking up each word in your magic spell in this alphabetical dictionary of elf sign language. Once you have studied the signs that go with each word of the spell, you will be ready to use them as you cast your spell in your magic.
. . . And to learn more about the Elven Way and magical path of the elves,
you may enjoy reading:The Elven Way: The Magical Path of The Shining Ones
“The Elven Way passes beyond the fields of the known
into the forest of the unknown
illuminated by the glow of the elves.”
(From the cover below)

The Elven Way:
The Magical Path of The Shining Ones
“Wherever you are, wherever you be, Faerie surrounds you if your heart is free.
If your mind is open then certain, for sure, you’ll soon hear the wind rattling your front door,
for Faerie comes calling, invite it right in, and you’ll find that magic is your lifelong friend.”
— The Silver Elves
We invite you to join our elven and otherkin groups on Facebook, dear Kindred! Here is our vision for the groups as a virtual community:For those wishing to join our many Silver Elves groups for Elfae and also friends of Elfae on Facebook, here is fairly complete list below of ones that we administer: You are all invited to any and all of them! We envision our 16+ Elfae Facebook groups as all connected (so in a way all one big elfae community group) and so going from one to the other is like meandering or flying around and being in a large elven community. It is like beautiful and enchanting large multi-story house that is inhabited by a number of elfae groups: (bottom floor has three private groups inside: The Elven Way and also Feasting with the Elves with a big kitchen and dining area for chatting, along with the Elven Homegroup); (second floor has the Faerie Craft group with a large display studio for elfae art); and (in the attic is the Elven Oracles Group where group oracle readings are always being shared). There are also lots of large enclosed or screened in porches off the main house (where you will find: Magical Books of the Silver Elves, Elfin Faerie Lore, Elven Life and Magic and We Adore Elves); there are also two gazebos, one is outside in the front lawn for Elvish Magical Chat and the other is in the back yard for I heart Elven Magic; an open circle outside around the bonfire to the side of the house for the Elf Witches of the Mystic Moon group; a quaint tree house out front for Elfae Tree Folk to meet; a faerie circle that is a bit beyond the back of the house in the forest for The Faerie Circle group to meet; and at the front gate is a cozy elfae cottage for those first entering to be greeting in the group Silver Elves Embassy. There is also a path from the house that wanders down to the creek and goes through where the group Nature and the Unseen Realms with the Elves and Otherkin meet and also that leads to meeting placesfor United Otherkin Alliance and its private sister group. So please do come join us in any and all of our groups:
Elven Home — https://www.facebook.com/groups/1712981718807166 This is an enchanting and private place for all elfae folk to share in cozy comfort. Feel free to share anything elfae related, and please do share (with images when you can) all about your own Eald (Elven Home) and the special aspects of it that make it your own enchanting elfin space.*
Elfae Tree Folk— https://www.facebook.com/groups/499002196782965 A place to share anything about the beloved trees that we elfae love so very dear and about life as a tree folk. This group is for you to spread your elven light through the day & the night and the forest.*
The Magical Books of the Silver Elves — https://www.facebook.com/groups/539205916250397 And if you would like to find out more about our 50+ The Silver Elves books on The Elven Way, please do join us! We have discussions about our Silver Elves books as well as about Elven and Otherkin philosophy, elven lifestyle and the Elven Way. If you have read our books and would like to discuss them with us, this is the place to come join in the discussions and ask also questions. And please do come share here in this group your own creative elven works of art, music, writing, crafts, or whatever you do to manifest Elfin in your life in your own way, as well as your thoughts and feelings about living the life Elfin.*
Elven Life and Magic — A group for fae folk of all kinds posting their magic and how they manifest living as an elfae. https://www.facebook.com/groups/629491797123886
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Elvish Magical Chat — Posting and chatting all about elves, faeries, pixies, and magic! https://www.facebook.com/groups/307775362744491
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The Faerie Circle — A group for the magical elfae folk. Be ever blest!https://www.facebook.com/groups/1025483294180077
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Elf Witches of the Mystic Moon — A place to share your magic and enchantment with other elf witches! https://www.facebook.com/groups/806583242768352
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Faerie Craft —This is a group to share your elven and fae creations, and yes you are welcome to advertise your elfish/faerie crafts. https://www.facebook.com/groups/395403367195312
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I Heart Elven Magic — For those who love Elfin Magic. https://www.facebook.com/groups/2215672296
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Feasting With the Elves (having fun sharing elven recipes and healthy eating) — https://www.facebook.com/groups/597948240617006
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United Otherkin Alliance —https://www.facebook.com/groups/328253710566869 This is an alliance for Otherkin/ Therians, where elves, faeries, dragons, kitsune, gnomes, hobbits, merkin, pixies, brownies, nymphs, driads, niaids, valkyrie, vampires, devas, fauns, unicorns, animal kin and all manner of Faerie Folk gather and come together! This group is open to anyone who wishes to be part of a congenial group of Otherkin. And its sister private group: *United Otherworld Friendshttps://www.facebook.com/groups/UnitedOtherworldFriends
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The Elven Way — This group creates a place for people to learn about the Elven Way and for Elves, Otherkin, and their friends to have a fun gathering place to enjoy each other’s company and share things on the path. It is open to anyone who wishes to learn about the Elven Way and friends of such. https://www.facebook.com/groups/165938637423212
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Nature & the Unseen Realms with the Elves & otherkin. A spiritual journey — This is a very active elven and otherkin group posting those generally unnoticed realms and wonders of Nature. https://www.facebook.com/groups/196916350335537
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Elfin Faerie Lore — For Faeries and Elfin Folk. This group is for sharing elfin faerie lore, magic and life as Fae. https://www.facebook.com/groups/975038062512421
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Silver Elves Embassy — This is a place of rest and gathering together to relax and share our stories, dreams for the future, and magic of our elfin adventures. We Silver Elves share some of our magical tales and adventures in this group that have lead us to further embrace the Shining Ones. https://www.facebook.com/groups/206231890276255
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We Adore Elves — This group is just a little hideaway for us to all come share our love for elves and elven and our elfin-faerie creativity as we manifest Elven in our lives. https://www.facebook.com/groups/Elfae
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Also do look for our other elfae groups on Facebook: Elfae Spirituality Group, Elfae Tree Folk, Elven Oracles Group, and Elfin Faerie Lore.
“When we step on through the door,
we realize there’s so much more than we had ever thought before,
for here in Elfin, we abide, together where we need not hide,
ready for the Faerie ride where everyone’s a true friend.”
— The Silver Elves