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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Let's stop being polite: Is the reason you can't find love because of how you look?

Imagine the prettiest girl you've ever met. Now be honest. If you looked like that girl you just thought about would you be in your dream relationship right now? If you changed your own appearance let's say, 20% would guys be approaching you more often or would someone you once dated have stuck around?

Men are shallow, even the ugly ones, and especially the ugly ones with clout or money. Still, how much do looks matter? There are women who you think you look better than that are either married or involved with the type of guy you would love to have. There are women who weigh more than you, that have no problem getting top shelf dick to chase them. Looks play a part in a man choosing a woman, but how much, and how do you put the odds in your favor no matter how you look?

Today I want to break down the idea of Girlfriend Pretty: What level is girlfriend pretty to the typical male. What makes a man choose one woman over another.

Men like petite...
Men like exotic...
Men like thick...
Men like blah blah blah...

MEN LIKE WHAT YOU PUT IN FRONT OF THEM!

Look up the top porn videos that get beat off to on Pornhub, it's not going to be some perfect looking woman.

Look at some of the most successful women on Onlyfans that these men are paying to message, they aren't Vogue cover girls. Stop assuming you know what guys like and understand that WE AS MEN are diverse in our tastes. You are holding your own self back by not embracing your looks!

SPARTAN TEST: Right now I want you to grab a mirror and look at yourself. Next I need you to do a test. On...

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

If you're single and have a history of getting passed up, cheated on, or strung along then everyone has a theory on why you haven't found the "right one." Family members will bullshit you and tell you that God has a plan and that you can't give up. Your close girlfriends will tell you that it's not you, it's males in general because men ain't shit (yet they can't hang because they're about to go bust it open for one of those ain't shit men). Your platonic male friends or even your exes will tell you how great you are and just blame it on timing. You can even go on YouTube to hear a bunch of unqualified experts give advice on how to dress, flirt, or suck dick in order to transform yourself into some highvaluefemgoddesspickmeassface... In the end, no matter who you listened to, your reality hasn't changed, you still haven't found "the one."

Let's stop being polite: Is the reason you can't find love because of how you look?

Imagine the prettiest girl you've ever met. Now be honest. If you looked like that girl you just thought about would you be in your dream relationship right now? If you changed your own appearance let's say, 20% would guys be approaching you more often or would someone you once dated have stuck around?

Men are shallow, even the ugly ones, and especially the ugly ones with clout or money. Still, how much do looks matter? There are women who you think you look better than that are either married or involved with the type of guy you would love to have. There are women who weight more than you, that have no problem getting top shelf dick to chase them. Looks play a part in a man choosing a woman, but how much, and how do you put the odds in your favor no matter how you look?

Today I want to break down the idea of Girlfriend Pretty: What level is girlfriend pretty to the typical male. What makes a man choose one woman over another. What role does your own confidence play in making a man see you as more attractive. Right now I want you to grab a mirror and look at yourself. Next I need you to do a test. On...

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

On today’s episode we revisit Black Girls Are Easy, the original blog that gave women the upper hand in how to play the game better than men. What has changed in dating in the 12 years since BGAE first started? What are the new rules of the dating game? Most importantly, how can you finally stop being a typical love thirsty Basica and graduate to being a Spartan!? We look back and look froward to explain it all!

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

"...I know this sounds bad, G.L. but don't judge me. I've known this man since I was 22 and I know for a fact that God put him on this earth for me. He cheated, I cheated back and we moved beyond that. He broke up with me, but came running back because he knew there was no other woman for him. Yes we have been very toxic for each other over these past eleven years, but I can't see myself marrying another man. You say to choose yourself and be a Spartan, but I say you have to choose love above all else. Can you please help me win my soulmate back because I already know there isn't anyone else for me..."

That sad shit above was a question sent into my podcast, but I felt it was a good opportunity to revisit this topic of soulmates, soul ties, and this idea that in a world filled with millions of eligible men, there are women who believe that ONE MAN and ONE MAN only, is for her... Basic Bitches believe in love with ain't shit men like 5 year olds believe in the tooth fairy, and it's time to stop.

I bet you believe in destiny, fate, someone with a matching personality and astrological sign who will come in and be the missing half that completes you. I'm not shitting on romance... I'm shitting on delusion. Manipulators will use your "this is fate" superstition to exploit you! "My soulmate is a black man so I'm not dating any other race," is what a woman told me years ago, and because of this stubborn ideology she ended up choosing the wrong black man who abused her. One of my good friends was in a severely toxic lesbian relationship for nearly five years but wouldn't leave because she swore that woman was her soulmate.

The point is, the moment you declare that someone is connected to you on a spiritual level, you paint yourself into this corner where you have to make it work regardless of the pain it's causing you. Spoiler Alert: LOVE ISN'T SUPPOSED TO HURT

Do you know who believes in "Soulmates" the most? Nice, sweet, loyal, ride or die women. The self-centered "Bad girls" don't by into that shit, they use these clowns. The seductive Hos don't buy into that shit, they dig into the pockets of the same men you fall hard over. It's the "nice girls" that are filled with delusion. These men chase bad girls and spend money on hos who don't even like them, then turn around and play games with YOUR heart because you're naïve. You believe that because a man has been in your life for years, he belongs in your life forever! EARTH TO BASICA, it doesn't work like that.

A man hanging around in your life, crawling back when he fucks up, or telling you how special you are after he's made you cry, does not equal love, it equals manipulation. Men use Placeholders as safety nets. He hangs around in your life because he knows you think your connection is magical. Bitch this ain't Hogwarts, that man isn't magical and your up and down relationship isn't destiny, it's pathetic. You've wasted all these years going back and forth because your common sense has been destroyed by this foolish concept of "we belong to each other."  No matter what he does you'll take him back, you'll have a baby by him, you'll believe in his potential... and year after year he fails you.

Pay close attention to what I'm about to write because this article can save you from wasting years of your life....

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

"...I know this sounds bad, G.L. but don't judge me. I've known this man since I was 22 and I know for a fact that God put him on this earth for me. He cheated, I cheated back and we moved beyond that. He broke up with me, but came running back because he knew there was no other woman for him. Yes we have been very toxic for each other over these past eleven years, but I can't see myself marrying another man. You say to choose yourself and be a Spartan, but I say you have to choose love above all else. Can you please help me win my soulmate back because I already know there isn't anyone else for me..."

That sad shit above was a question sent into my podcast, but I felt it was a good opportunity to revisit this topic of soulmates, soul ties, and this idea that in a world filled with millions of eligible men, there are women who believe that ONE MAN and ONE MAN, only is for her... Basic Bitches believe in love with ain't shit men like 5 year olds believe in the tooth fairy, and it's time to stop.

I bet you believe in destiny, fate, someone with a matching personality and astrological sign who will come in and be the missing half that completes you. I'm not shitting on romance... I'm shitting on delusion. Manipulators will use your "this is fate" superstition to exploit you! "My soulmate is a black man so I'm not dating any other race," is what a woman told me years ago, and because of this stubborn ideology she ended up choosing the wrong black man who abused her. One of my good friends was in a severely toxic lesbian relationship for nearly five years but wouldn't leave because she swore that woman was her soulmate.

The point is, the moment you declare that someone is connected to you on a spiritual level, you paint yourself into this corner where you have to make it work regardless of the pain it's causing you. Spoiler Alert: LOVE ISN'T SUPPOSED TO HURT

Do you know who believes in "Soulmates" the most? Nice, sweet, loyal, ride or die women. The self-centered "Bad girls" don't by into that shit, they use these clowns. The seductive Hos don't buy into that shit, they dig into the pockets of the same men you fall hard over. It's the "nice girls" that are filled with delusion. These men chase bad girls and spend money on hos who don't even like them, then turn around and play games with YOUR heart because you're naïve. You believe that because a man has been in your life for years, he belongs in your life forever! EARTH TO BASICA, it doesn't work like that.

A man hanging around in your life, crawling back when he fucks up, or telling you how special you are after he's made you cry, does not equal love, it equals manipulation. Men use Placeholders as safety nets. He hangs around in your life because he knows you think your connection is magical. Bitch this ain't Hogwarts, that man isn't magical and your up and down relationship isn't destiny, it's pathetic. You've wasted all these years going back and forth because your common sense has been destroyed by this foolish concept of "we belong to each other."  No matter what he does you'll take him back, you'll have a baby by him, you'll believe in his potential... and year after year he fails you.

Pay close attention to what I'm about to write because this article can save you from wasting years of your life....

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Getting dates are easy these days. If you have an internet connection and a cute picture you can log onto any number of dating apps, swipe, and have some guy willing to take you out by the weekend. Attracting quality dates and avoiding fuck boys is a little bit more complex, but IF you have self esteem, Spartan Confidence, and aren’t lazy it’s insanely easy to pull multiple men and build a roster filled with stallions for you to pick from.

Commitment is another story... Too many of you are great at the dating stage and horrible at getting a man to fall hard and make you his girlfriend...

"G.L. when will my "friend" make it official, it's been four months"

Answer: C'mon sis, wake up! How are you giving up rounds of coochie and can't even get out of the Talking Stage? A man knows after 4 weeks if you're GF material, if it's been four months then he doesn't see you as special, just something to do!

"G.L. why did the last guy I dated string me along then jump into a relationship with a new bitch?"

Answer: Because that new woman showed him something exciting and fresh while you were typical and stale! There are too many single women for a man to try and fix a Placeholder's damage.

"G.L. Are some men just not ready to commit or is it me?"

Answer: The right woman will make any man recognize that he has to snatch her now or regret it forever. Men know that bad bitches don't stay single for long and they move accordingly. Therefore, when a man says he's not ready for a relationship he's leaving off the words "with you" because he's waiting for someone better-- his Game Changer.

Their are more Placeholders in this world than Game Changers because women cuff themselves to men with high potential and low follow through. You allow these guys to sample you for months even years because you don’t believe you’re worth more! Why would a man commit to you when he’s given the girlfriend benefits within weeks of meeting you? All these guys have to do is show you attention and take you out a few times and you fall on their dick. Your mouth says “I’m a trophy” but your actions scream “Pick Me I’m on Sale”! If you want a commitment, you have to raise your standards and know what men see as Game Changer traits.

Step One: What Will Make A Man Commit Fast

Let's dive into the m...

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

What do you talk about with men... other than responding to his generic "I miss you," "when can I see you," or "send me a pic" bullshit? Sexual talk and asking someone how their day was, doesn't create a true bond! Most men lust after you, get to know you, and grow bored because the things you both talked about were basic. Do you want to snatch a man's soul with your words? Or do you want to nod along as he tries to joke his way into your panties?

On today's episodes I'm going to talk you through the top 5 conversation topics EVERY WOMAN needs to know. Plus, a special guest joins me to answer all the questions you've been dying to know about how to Spartan Up! What are you waiting for? PRESS PLAY!
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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

What do you talk about with men... other than responding to his generic "I miss you," "when can I see you," or "send me a pic" bullshit? Sexual talk and asking someone how their day was, doesn't create a true bond! Most men lust after you, get to know you, and grow bored because the things you both talked about were basic. Do you want to snatch a man's soul with your words? Or do you want to nod along as he tries to joke his way into your panties?

On today's episodes I'm going to talk you through the top 5 (and maybe more) conversation topics EVERY WOMAN needs to know if they're in the dating stage or even in a relationship. Plus, a special guest joins me to answer all the questions you've been dying to know about my life! What are you waiting for? PRESS PLAY...

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Is it hard out here for men? Of course, but that's no reason for the endless excuses of why you continue to act like a boy instead of a man. Many of today’s men are guilty of playing too many games that end up hurting their own stock, then throw their hands up as if they're so innocent.

Money, the people in power, feminist culture, blah blah fucking blah. No one's on the side of normal guys just trying to get by. No one understands that it takes time to build and grow. Everyone wants a man that's already successful and everyone judges the guy in the struggle... so what? You sit around and complain, instead of putting your head down and proving who you are? One of the biggest finger pointing complaints I see in males isn't money, it relates to dating and relationships. "Women Today Aren't Built Like My Mom's Generation! They're all gold diggers with attitudes and little patience," Yawn! Mentalities like that is why the dating pool is so toxic.

-Bitches today are only concerned with money.

-Bitches today expect men to do all the work in terms of dating.

-Bitches today aren't loyal and put way too much stock in clout chasing.

The list of negative male assumptions goes on and on depending on how misogynistic that man is.

There are men who do just fine, no complaints, no bitterness, and have no problem finding love in this modern world. Why can some men find Game Changers while other men cry and insult? Is the reason you can’t find a quality woman really the rise of so-called City Girl Ho Culture, a lack of female common sense, or this idea that women expect so much yet bring so little to the table, or is it the way you behave that keeps you attracting donkeys instead of Unicorns?

Today let's break down Male Insecurity. I have a son on the way and I will be damned if he's raised to see girls as the problem or make excuses for his own place in life. Many of you don't have Dad's or role models, just the internet or toxic friends who also come from poor family foundations. I want every man to read this with an open mind and every woman to read it even closer as many of you deal with insecure men and don't even recognize the signs. Ladies you can't heal a hurt man, you can only put a mirror up to him so he can help himself!

The first sign of insecurity in a man is easy to spots just look for at his past. Who does he date and why did he date her?

Grown Man Vs. Little Boy

A boy will lead on in order to conquer a girl he barely likes. He will hide his emotions to safeguard against a girl he likes too much. He will even go back to the same girl over and over again, off and on, on and off, only to realize what he already knew—she’s not the one. Why? Each one of these moves are emotionally safe and keeps him from being hurt.

-Only sleeping with women you have no emotional connection with makes it easier to ghost her or keep her in the situationship bubble.

-Playing it cool with a woman you really like to the point where you downplay your feelings and sabotage the connection keeps your heart guarded from the eventual pain that comes with that woman not feeling the same way about you that you feel about her.

-Going back to an ex that you know is weak and thirsty for your love keeps you in power. You control her mind, she's too "dick dumb" to realize you don't want her, therefore the power dynamic remains in your favor because she will never be strong enough to hurt you in the ways you can hurt her.

What's the point of these games in the first place? SAFETY! 99% of men have gone through some kind of hurt in the past when it comes to women. No matter who you are, how you look, or how much wealth you now have, there was a woman or maybe even multiple women that rejected you or betrayed you, and it still hurts. "Bro, that was high school let that hurt go..." isn't going to make someone heal. Once that hurt turns to anger and that anger turns to distrust, a bitter man is born and words alone won't give him the power to reset his past and evolve his mind. Every time he swipes on an app, goes to DM a pretty girl on social, or is introduced to a potential love interest, the pain comes roaring back and he goes on the defensive: I don't trust this bitch, so let me throw on this mask and get her before she can get me...

Little boys think like that, grown men think beyond that by first l...

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