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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

People love to spew the cliché of “everyone deserves a second chance” and forgiveness is what a good person practices. Bullshit. Not everyone deserves a second chance and not knowing when to walk away will rob you of the best years of your life. One more chance turns into two more chances followed by one last chance. How many times do you need the same person to piss in your mouth before you figure out urine doesn't taste good?

Let’s say you've had an up and down relationship with a guy, he’s lied and cheated, and finally you two split. He’s sick without you, begs like a puppy dog, and three weeks after swearing him off, you’re reconsidering taking him back. Why? Because you're in love with what he WAS. At the start of the relationship a man will hook you with love bombing, meaning he takes you out, tells you how different you are, always wants to see you and show you new things, and of course spoils you in terms of paying for high level dates or getting you gifts. This is the man you fall for, the one who knows how to treat you unlike your exes. The one that listens to you and wants something deeper, unlike the rest of these clowns on the dating apps. Most women are very suspicious and guarded when it comes to men, but smart males know that inside every woman is a princess waiting to be treated like she's the only woman on earth. That's what love bombing is-- a fast and furious way to drop your defense, open your heart, and win you over so that no matter how he switches up in the weeks or months to come you will hold onto that idea that he's the perfect man for you.

"The apology should be as loud as the disrespect" is a common term, but it's more basic bitch propaganda. He embarrassed you, so now you want him to make it up by showering you with love publicly. Posting you on social, taking you to some island vacation spot, buying you a bag or car, what the fuck does that solve? He's shutting your dumb ass up so he can get you back on his team, because every ain't shit man needs a placeholder to stroke his ego while he goes off to chase the bad bitches he actually wants. He only needs you until he can get one of them, so of course he's going to apologize, make promises to change, and take some nut ass picture holding your hand and smiling... that's still not going to keep the hos away or quiet your anxiety because deep down inside you know you fell for the wrong man.

"But, G.L. my mother said everyone deserves a second chance, aren't you being too hard on men?" If your mother really told you to run back to a man that dogged you out than she was probably basic as fuck in the 80s letting men break her heart too with no repercussions. When you’re in love anything that doesn't end with, “Go ahead and take him back”, is considered bad advice. Basicas love the idea of one more chance, not because it’s morally sound, but because it gives them permission to choose with their heart instead of their head. When you want someone so bad, you will pull weak ass celebrity examples out of your ass, biblical quotes, and even place the blame on your own attitude and behavior. Stop using some toxic celebrity couple as a reason to stay with someone who violates you and stop Gaslighting yourself into staying in an unhealthy relationship!

Yes, some situations are unique and do deserve a chance to work itself out. The fucked up thing is that every girl thinks that her situation is special, her guy is different, and she can make anything work. To get played when you thought that your love was real and that you were the greatest woman in the world is embarrassing. However, is the sickening pain you feel and need to work it out a result of true love or the humbling effect of incompatibility? Let's be honest. You don't want to go back outside. Dating sucks, getting to know people is scary, and dating like a Spartan takes work. You want a world where a handsome guy is honest, doesn't play games, and sees enough in you to want to commit and never turn his head. That's not how this universe is set up!

Your Inner Weak Bitch

Breaking up is hard, but it's not harder than losing the prime years of life to a fuckboy. "I don't know what to do, there aren't a lot of men that bring what he brings to the table," bitch you're brainwashed! If you're currently single, in a situationship, or in an up and down relationship there is one secret that you need to know about every man which is that we all judge you by how much you let us get away with. From the male POV, when we see you and are infatuated with lust, we assume that you're out of our league, have so many options, and that we may not be good enough. Doesn't matter who we are or what we have, when we lay eyes on a pretty woman like you, our thoughts go back to a little boy stage of insecurity, which is why we apply so much pressure to get you, it's all based on our male fear.

I knew a guy who was a child actor, more money than he can spend, and he nervously asked me about a date he was about to have with a woman who worked at the juice bar at his gym. Why did she rattle him? Men are intimidated by women we really like. We put them on a pedestal based on our lust. Which means that we create a high level of respect for these women who we don't even know and will do anything to get them to see us as worth their time. Translation: The most power any woman will have over a man is during that first month or two chase. You all aren't up on that secret, and you assume that you need to impress a man, which makes you dumb down your personality, act awkward, and allow your boundaries to be crossed way too early. The moment that man sees that you fear him, he relaxes, he takes his power back, and he tests you to determine how much he can get away with and of course if you're wifey or pussy.

The Male Rule Book: He's going to try and fuck you fast, then he's going to try and control your time, then he's going to see how you act when he starts to put you second.

Let's break this down: He fucks you fast, and now he knows that he has nothing to lose because the top thing he wanted he got, which was pussy. He takes control of your time which shows him that you don't have any other men better than him, and that you're willing to put him over your friends. Finally he starts to put you second, meaning that he can break plans, not show up, and see you on his terms which is all a test to train you to be at his beck and call. When you put all of these things into the mix, it equals a lack of respect and a redefining of how he views you. What started off as a woman on a pedestal during the first month, transforms into "just another bitch who I can do what I want to." That's the game and that's why so many of you who should be wifey end up as pussy.

Today I'm going to break down how to let go of these men, but first let's start with how to prevent this in the first place. For a man to see you as the wifey type and not the pussy type you must

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

A man will tell you everything you want to hear, talk about a future with you, and fuck you like it's a permanent soul tie... only to distance himself.

What are you doing that's making these men see you as a placeholder instead of a trophy? Sex! Women should be the ones pussy whipping and setting the rules, but instead they are the ones who get clingy and attached off of dick and promises.

These men love bomb you in the name of lust, and you never stop to ask, “Is this real, do I really like him?” Because you believe in the hype he’s whispering in your ear. Your ego is as big as it is fragile, and you buy into people who don’t actually want you because you’re chasing after proof that you’re good enough to get a commitment. It's time to evolve! On today's episode, we go through four events that will help you get your mind right and learn some discipline.

Also on this episode, we break down the starting over process. How do you move on from heartbreak or career failures that has led to depression or even suicidal thoughts? We also hear from a man who talks about the one thing his girlfriend does that is making it hard for him to continue to love her.

And in the second half of the episode we answer the biggest emails of the week including one about a woman who feels sex is making her choose the wrong men, preview her question below:

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

A man will tell you everything you want to hear, talk about a future with you, and fuck you like it's a permanent soul tie... only to distance himself.

What are you doing that's making these men see you as a placeholder instead of a trophy? Sex! Women should be the ones pussy whipping and setting the rules, but instead they are the ones who get clingy and attached off of dick and promises. On today's episode, we go through four events that will help you get your mind right and learn some discipline.

Also on this episode, we break down the starting over process. How do you move on from heartbreak or career failures that has led to depression or even suicidal thoughts? We also hear from a man who talks about the one thing his girlfriend does that is making it hard for him to continue to love her.

And in the second half of the episode we answer the biggest emails of the week including one about a woman who feels sex is making her choose the wrong men, preview her question below:

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Work dick is better than Tinder dick.

Ancient Ratchet Proverb

I get it. You're in the middle of a drought. There's no one on the apps, your DMs are dry as fuck, and the only person banging down your door is maybe a dusty ex... Without any viable options you start to look for connections in familiar places and with people that have been off limits up until now.

That guy at work who was just "okay" is looking kinda fine all of a sudden and he just broke up with his girl... That new guy at the gym who always uses the machine next to you has been making little comments and suddenly looking like a snack... Maybe it's someone at school who you never looked at "that way" until now, or even someone in your friend group whose personality has grown on you over these past few months. Don't lie. Every time you see that person now, you start to tingle. At night your mind starts to obsess with "should I" and while that logical side of you is unsure, that sexual and hormonal side is ready to RISK IT ALL... Mama is ovulating and ANY of these fools can get their souls snatched!

No matter who is suddenly on your radar, the main question becomes: Should you cross those boundaries... and how do you cross those boundaries in a way that won't make things awkward?

There's a saying, "Don't shit where you eat," in the world of dating, it's often seen as off-limits to date someone you have to see often. What happens if everyone at work finds out? What happens if you were friends before or in a some kind of social group and you have a falling out? What happens if this was your personal trainer, and you just fucked up months of fitness gains for a dick you no longer want? At the same time there are examples of people who got married to that work husband or gym guy. But think about your life, not others... Is it ever worth upsetting the balance of your life by blending two worlds-- the romantic with the professional or personal?

Let's be real, 90% of you reading this do not care about the "what if" because when it comes to lust and a lack of options it's worth the risk. So, I'm going to give you some insight on how to navigate this world to get what you want and how to hit reset if it doesn't work out... the last part will be the most important.

First off, let's start with a little break down of how easy it is to get these types of men who you already know or see all the time to approach you (respectfully) and fall deep in lust to the point where he wants to devour your pussy face first (disrespectfully). My mission is to make sure YOU have the upper hand going in to this kind of situation, and aren't doing this in a shy or weak way that will get you played or used. Understand that men who you see often have ALREADY been paying attention to you on the low and his brain has been playing the "what if" game that we do with any woman that's not blood related-- would I fuck her... would I be with her... and most importantly should I go after that. The object is to do little things that dog whistle towards these thoughts until a man lands on Yes. Yes. Fuck Yes!

Who To Target & How

“I don’t think he likes me like that,” whines the Basica, who has no idea of how to pussy whip a man without giving up the pussy. I’m going to show you how easy it is to stand out and...

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

I get it. You're in the middle of a drought. There's no one on the apps, your DMs are dry as fuck, and the only person banging down your door is maybe a dusty ex... Without any viable options you start to look for connections in familiar places. That guy at work who was just "okay" is looking kinda fine all of a sudden and he just broke up with his girl... That new guy at the gym who always uses the machine next to you has been making little comments and suddenly looking like a snack... Maybe it's someone at school who you never looked at "that way" until now, or even someone in your friend group whose personality has grown on you over these past few months. Mama is ovulating and all of these fools can get their soul snatched! No matter who is suddenly on your radar, the main question becomes: Should you cross those boundaries... and how do you cross those boundaries in a way that won't make things awkward?

There's a saying, "Don't shit where you eat," in the world of dating, it's often seen as off-limits to date someone you have to visit often. What happens if everyone at work finds out? What happens if you were friends before or in a group and all have a falling out? What happens if this was your personal trainer and you just fucked up months of gains for a dick you no longer want? Is it ever worth upsetting the balance of your life by blending two worlds-- the romantic with the professional or personal?

Let's be real, 90% of you reading this do not care about the "what if" because when it comes to lust and a lack of options it's worth the risk. So I'm going to give you some insight on how to navigate this world to get what you want and how to hit reset if it doesn't work out... the last part will be the most important. First off let's start with a little break down of how easy it is to get these types of men who you already know or see all the time to approach you (respectfully) and fall deep in lust to the point where you have the upper hand going in to this kind of situation. Understand that men who you see often have already been paying attention to you on the low and his brain has

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

On this episode we hear from a listener who thought being sassy was the same as being sexy and found out the hard way that men don't react to little girl games. Seduction isn't about saying lines or coming off as unbothered, this isn't an episode of Insecure. In the real world there are certain things that get a man's attention and keeps it, and no it's not sex, it's energy.

Why can some girls keep a man glued while other women who fuck, suck, and submit can't? The mind of a man isn't complex but it's different from yours and too many of you are busting it open when you should be BAITING a man, challenging him to chase, and tattooing his mind before he even gets a chance to taste it!

No matter if you're introverted or struggle with confidence I'm going to break down how to transmute sexual energy into flirting without having to say a word.

Also, in this episode, we dive into how to date with mental health issues, why celibacy can leave you trapped, and so much more! Don't miss out! Click below to listen in.

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

On this episode we hear from a listener who thought being sassy was the same as being sexy and found out the hard way that men don't react to little girl games. Seduction isn't about saying lines or coming off as unbothered, this isn't an episode of Insecure. In the real world there are certain things that get a man's attention and keeps it, and no it's not sex, it's energy.

Why can some girls keep a man glued while other women who fuck, suck, and submit can't? The mind of a man isn't complex but it's different from yours and too many of you are busting it open when you should be BAITING a man, challenging him to chase, and tattooing his mind before he even gets a chance to taste it!

No matter if you're introverted or struggle with confidence I'm going to break down how to transmute sexual energy into flirting without having to say a word.

Also, in this episode, we dive into how to date with mental health issues, why celibacy can leave you trapped, and so much more! Don't miss out! Click below to listen in.

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Your heart wasn't the first heart to be broken, but to listen to you carry on about all the ways you've been hurt you would think you invented pain.

The difference between those women that conquer heartbreak and grow stronger, and the ones who bitterly hold on to that hurt has nothing to do with DNA. Your Daddy never told you men sell girls dreams like every day is Black Friday, oh well! Her Daddy never told her either, but she figured it out, adjusted, and now eats men for breakfast! Her mental toughness isn’t an exception, but your mental weakness makes excuses as if other women are embedded with special “zero fucks given” microchips. No one skipped over you and forgot to give you strength, you CHOOSE to be soft because being strong requires actual work. For every weak bitch problem I hear, I know a Strong Woman example where a female overcame a man’s bullshit by not crumbling into a victim. A strong woman doesn’t revel in pity, she pushes on. A strong woman doesn’t make excuses for her mistakes, she makes amends. A strong woman doesn’t take her heart and run home, she stays in the game and dares a nigga to try to fool her the same way twice! A Spartan isn’t born with a strong heart, she develops it!

The majority of women reading this have an explanation for every bad relationship they've been though, a side of the story that will garner sympathy and support, and make her an exception to the rules of love. Bitch, please. Your story is undoubtedly the same as thousands of women across this planet! She overcame the same backstory as you, and found true love. You are sitting there still mad, on the internet, being a victim and saying stupid shit like "Dating sucks" or "Marriage is outdated" because you aren't built like the woman who picked herself up and manifested a better romantic life. You are to blame for your life's choices! Your mindset is to blame for your life's choices! It’s time to stop pointing the finger at the man, the situation, even yourself and understand the "why" of your behavior so you can finally move the hell on. Let's begin with the first step to getting your shit together. There are two categories that men put women in the first is...

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

You can have who you want, get what you want, and live in an endless abundance... so why don't you? These men should bow down to you, your career should be on fire, that bank account should be overflowing but you're being held back by something that you're refusing to see: You STILL Aren't living up to your potential because your mind is in a fear based loop of DOUBT.

Does Mark Zuckerberg wake up and say, “I’m wealthy and I'm becoming abundant.” No, because it’s self-evident! Affirmations aren’t needed when the Truth is cemented in your mind. You chant or repeat words you don't fully believe to affirm things that you secretly think are lies, and then wonder why your confidence is bipolar and your manifestations are sporadic at best.

Look at your thought process and mood. Your confidence changes depending on the situation. If you're dating someone who is feeding your ego with actions and words that line up with your love language, you're high as a kite. The moment that person gets busy or hasn't called, you crash emotionally. "How do I fix this and get them to like me again, so I can go back to being happy." That anxiety is proof that you happiness is dependent on other people. How can you ever win when others have that much power over you?

On this episode I'm going to lead you to the truth of your power and how to flip the switch from dependent to Main Character!

I'm going to bully you and push you to become more today than what you were yesterday, I guarantee! Don't miss this special episode! Click below to listen!

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

You can have who you want, get what you want, and live in an endless abundance... so why don't you? These men should bow down to you, your career should be on fire, that bank account should be overflowing but you're being held back by something that you're refusing to see.

"What if" doubt, past set backs, current frustrations, all of these things limit your ability to manifest. It's time to unlock Goddess mode and realize your potential as the baddest bitch to ever walk this earth.

I don't care what your situation is, what you look like, or what anyone has ever told you-- the voice in your head is about to flip a switch! I'm going to bully you and push you to become more today than what you were yesterday, I guarantee!

Don't miss this special episode! Click below to listen!

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