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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

If a man likes you, he will show it... financially.

Most men don't like you in the true sense. They want you temporarily. It's a fixation, an obsession, and a chase that they will try to win by love-bombing, gift-giving, telling you how different you are, and all the fake-deep things that come with the pursuit of pussy.

You are not pussy. You are a Spartan. To fall for a man who is trying to buy his way between your legs proves that you're easy, naive, and destined to get ran through not run things. The rule of the game is not to get used when getting treated! It's not "tricking" if you're giving him sex. It's not spoiling if he's getting more out of the deal than you are.

Being a sugar baby without giving up any sugar isn't a myth. It's a reality for any woman who recognizes that if a man REALLY wants you, he's going to pull out every card in his wallet, trying to crack you open.

"But I don't want to run him off by not giving him what he wants..." Silly Basica, there is no such thing as "running him off" or "pushing him away" if you understand that males crave attention even more than women these days. To get in his head, make him feel wanted, but never let him have a slice of the pie he's thirsting for will put you in a league that these scared ass women who center men will never experience.

He can go after another woman and get her, but she won't be you.

He can try to mindfuck you and act like he's upset with you, but he'll come back.

He can do all of the little boy tricks to get you to give it up faster, but they won't work because you were smart enough not to give him anything more than a kiss. That's power. That's Goddess shit. That's the glue you need to learn to produce instead of running around here acting like a foolish 17-year-old open off of low-effort males.

On today's show, we go over some of the biggest rules you all missed when reading Ho Tactics to get you right for the Holidays.

Plus, we answer your questions on reinventing yourself in your 30s, how to deal with temptation in a relationship and much more! Press play below to listen to this brand new episode...

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

A man can ask you for sex—and get it! …But you can’t even ask them for uber money, rent money, plane fair, or help with a bill? “I’m not a prostitute”. You’re not smart either. Why would you ever give your mind, body, and soul to a man who hasn’t invested his time, effort, or money? Basicas think courting is text messages and “come see me,” is putting in work. He texts you all day and opens up about his dreams and goals, YAYYYY! Do you want a cookie for getting the same level of pursuit as a 16-year-old? A woman who understands her value knows that “I like you” requires proof and “I love you” requires deep receipts!

-If he likes you, he will work around even a busy schedule to make sure he's consistently spending time with you.

-If he likes you then he would take you out on dates that reflect how special he thinks you are.

-If he likes you, he will come out of his pocket to treat you to nice things or gifts.

“I love you,” is cheap and meaningless unless they’ve put their time, effort, and money, where their mouth is. Some of you are nodding along in agreement BUT you still won’t ask for this kind of treatment, especially money.

Closed mouths and open legs don’t mix! How are you in the dating stage, relationship stage, or even married and afraid to ask the man you’re with for money or gifts? “If my man wants me to have something he’ll offer,” do you hear that? That’s a Basica with pride fumbling the bag. You’re so afraid to hear “no” or so focused on being independent that you don’t realize how easy it is to get what you want from these men. Just last month this woman who read and had the courage to use my book Ho Tactics can come away with 10k from a man she had only known a week—no sex, no tongue kissing, no nudes being shared, she simply asked, and he gave. Meanwhile you’re sitting their paying ALL your own rent or stressed over a bill and you’re actually having sex with these men.

                “I’m not a gold digger,” “I don’t want to feel like I owe a man,” Blah Blah Blah! Your blood type must be E— because you’re FILLED with excuses as to why you’re dealing with guys who aren’t doing anything for you.  You’re a woman, the creator of life, God in the flesh, and the thing men chase even more than money! Stop selling yourself short and understand that your heart needs to be earned with time, effort, loyalty, and FINANCES.  It’s time to stop being this prideful pick me and embrace the fact that it costs to date a woman of your stature.

If you don’t believe you’re a high value woman that deserves more and that you should be 50/50 with a man for the rest of your life, then click off this website right now, there’s no point in a low vibrational woman reading what I have to say. If you’re about this life and realize that you can get more from the men, you deal with then keep reading because I’m going to break it all the way down…

What To Say To Get What You Want From Any Man

The first step...

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

For men, having a girl spend over means SEX. For women, spending the night comes with a lot more pressure. There’s nothing more nerve-racking than spending the night for the first time at a guy’s house who you really like. This isn’t a house date that goes long, and you leave at 1 am. This is all night into the morning, where you’ll reveal things about yourself, and even more importantly, you’ll discover things about him.

Are you the only woman that sleeps over?

What happens when you find an earring, panties, or that box of Tampax SUPER under his sink?

Will he turn his phone on do not disturb because he’s hiding something?

Is he expecting sex if you haven't had sex already?

What if you deny him and he kicks you out?

What if you give in, and his sex game is weak as fuck?

What if you get performance anxiety yourself and he thinks your pussy is trash?

What happens the day after? Will he ghost? Will he be even more into you?

No matter how old you are, don’t feel ashamed about having all these questions. Today I’m going to break down things to expect before and after a sleepover and some things men HATE that women do when they stay the night and violate our space. So, if you’re about to take that next level. Pay close attention.

PART 1: Sex for the first time... Keeping a dick hard and having him whipped in less than 20 minutes

If you're spending the night and you plan on having sex, there are certain techniques you have to know. Here's the thing, we as men grow up watching porn, we emulate and learn from the masters of sex. When women watch porn, it's usually with their vibrator to get off real quick. 90% of the women I've talked to about this subject have told me they don't watch porn as an education. They look for whatever freaky thing that's going to make them cum, bust off, and quickly delete their website history so no one finds out what they're into.

That's cool, but when it comes to throwing pussy on a man for the first or second time, what tricks do you know? Even more important, as a woman, how can you communicate what you need from a man to cum. Maybe you're the type of girl who stays wet and will make a mess on his dick the moment he hits it from the back, or maybe you're more complicated and need role play, dirty talk, etc... You have to go into this situation knowing how to make the sex enjoyable for you but also how to make a man not only cum (let's face it we cum easily) but how to make that experience feel special.

When a man sees a woman as a once in a life time fuck, he won't let go. The problem is, so many girls are good but not amazing. Ladies, we can get good sex from any girl we find on an app. We can get great sex from one of our exes who knows our spots. BUT when it comes to amazing sex, that's what we as men are always chasing- we don't ghost bomb pussy, we lock it down.

I know you're nervous, but you have to put your shy girl routine away and become a Spartan in the sheets. Foreplay is crucial. Don't let him kiss your neck, pull out your titties, and jam it in like he's an 18-year-old. Take your time. Lead him where you want him to go. My one homie was telling me about some girl he met from IG and how the sex was horrible. Here she was twerking her BBL for the camera, but when he got her home after the date, she just laid there with this weird giggle like she was slow. Of course he ghosted her, all that ass, all that online clout, and she probably thinks the reason she's single is because men are trash, no she's single because every man that finally fucks that banging body recognizes that she's all surface and no substance! Don't be like Ms. IG Weak Pussy!

The most important trick that women forget to do is to take control of the dick. Here's a tactic that will take you to the next level. When you grab our d...

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

"G.L. I've been dating this guy for three months. I didn't think he was after sex because we slept together after our second date and he still stuck around. Most of our dates since sex were house dates but I also got to meet his mom, hung out with his friends, and he paid for my nails a few times without asking. I found out that he's married last week and that I'm basically a fling. He's ghosted me and blocked me on Insta. This is the second time I've been blocked by a man in the past year. I've read your book Solving Single but I still can't get it. I know what you're saying but I can't do these things when I date. I don't ask the right questions, I move too fast, and I just end up hurt all the time. Could you please break down your dating tactics for me like I'm dumb because I'm starting to think I may be hopeless. "

Men aren't hard to seduce.

Men aren't hard to catch in a lie.

Men aren't hard to make fall for you.

Men aren't hard to expose.

If you're struggling with dating it's because you're not paying attention to the things I write. You give up pussy and then think a man is going to suddenly act better? You fall in love without knowing what makes this man tick? Pussy is power and it's time to stop giving it all away in the name of false love!

The podcast episode you've been waiting for! You're not dumb, you're just stubborn and afraid to Spartan Up! You want a man to see you as special but come off as typical. You give these guys everything based off potential: You're too nice, too easy, and you let them toy with you over and over again. Men, even the decent ones, will never play fair they will always test you during the dating stage, so what are you showcasing? You say you're so great, but why aren't you winning? Why aren't these men chasing you? Why don't you have a roster?

Why are you full of anxiety instead of being fulfilled by REAL LOVE?

Listen to the podcast below if you want to hit reset and turn the table. Make these men beg, make these men appreciate you, and most importantly make them value you instead of play games with you. Spartans command respect and that step begins with destroying your basic bitch nature and recognizing what you're doing wrong! It's not your intelligence, it's your courage and strategy! What's the point of gaining power if you're just going to give it back to the next man who charms you?

It's time to Spartan Up. Listen below to this exclusive excerpt from my Audio Book "Date Like A Spartan"

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

"Never let another woman keep you from your husband" - Ho Tactics Rules of Etiquette volume 2 

Some people say, "Taking another woman's boyfriend or husband isn't right…" Right is a direction, and there are no laws when it comes to dating. Your moral rules are your own. In this world, countless people don't follow the "right" guidelines, but they still get what they want. There are women who use tactics, mindfucks, and seduction techniques to get their happy ending, even if it means breaking up YOUR happy home. You could say, "That's what's wrong with the world today," but in the end, how you feel doesn't change the outcome that the secret to a lot of success is being a "bad girl" who takes what she wants.

The fact is a man can NOT be taken. A man chooses and there is nothing any woman can do to stop a man from doing what he wants to do with his penis... or heart. "I thought I knew him," wake up, Basica! A man doesn't even know himself until he's tested by the right woman.

Some men are just after sex and manipulate women with bullshit like "I'll leave her for you," but don't. To become emotionally involved with a con artist who plays you for sex is hustling backwards. A man will get that new pussy fix and then run back to their normal life or keep your naive ass hanging for years "hoping" you're good enough. Spoiler Alert: If a man is going to leave, his woman for you he leaves early on or not at all. Why would a man who got the milk now buy the cow, Basica?

...BUT sometimes there are women who are so magical that a man doesn't just want to have sex he, NEEDS to have this woman as his own. When a man meets his Game Changer, he will blow up his entire life to have her... wife, kids, judgement from his friends, he doesn't care, he has to have you and will prove it by choosing you!

Welcome to the world of being the other woman... not the mistress or side ho, but the other woman who WINS.

 

Men are simple fucking creatures and you all buy into them like they're brilliant. Men don't know what they're doing or what they want when looking for women, and if a guy tells you he does, he's full of shit. A man commits early on based on fear, ego, and lust. "I don't want other men fucking her. By making her mine, I can have sex with her anytime I want without all of the cat and mouse." In short, you're committing to a man who is making you his girlfriend for very shallow reasons and pretending as if it's deep. You're not "special or different, or wifey" he's simply caught up in that new pussy smell.

You all say shit like, "I'm dating for marriage!" Okay, Typical Tina, but will that man remain in love with you after children, after you gain a few pounds, or after your political or religious views change? The divorce rate is so high because the foundation is based on wanting a ring, wanting a wedding, and wanting not to be alone instead of truly vetting. You know how men are; you know how quickly they turn their heads when another woman walks in the room, and it's because men have other goals. Guys don't chase marriage. They chase sex. This is the fundamental problem that I write about in my books when teaching you all how to date step by step with intention, not just ring chase and go with a man's flow like he's the only dick in the land.

"There's someone better for me out there," That's the crack that's already in countless relationships. Good men, well trained men, wealthy men, all unhappy and waiting for someone like you to walk into his life...

Imagine if you didn't make the rules: "He's off limits," and instead proclaimed: "watch me see if I can widen that crack." That's the game. I have a woman I coached who went from a one-bedroom Koreatown apartment to living in Dubai with a recently divorced man, and all she had to do was the steps I'm about to list below.

Mental boredom is where relationships die, and the excitement of other women becomes a drug that the main chick can't compete with. Test a man, and he breaks like glass, not because you're a better option than his woman. It's because he's BEEN over his woman, their routine, and craves someone fun and new.

Burning Love = I love this woman to death, and I'm going to try my best not to fuck it up and work through my horny male nature and asshole tendencies.

Comfort Love = I love this woman because I know her and she takes care of me, but she isn't exactly what I want anymore. BUT I have to deal with that because it's better to stay with her than try to find someone new in this world filled with gold diggers, idiots, and thots.

There are more people in dead-end "comfort love" relationships than there are people in serious "burning love" ones. I would estimate that 70% of "people who are "Taken" people aren't happy, and if the RIGHT person came along, they would probably entertain them. Entertaining could be a one-night stand with someone from work, a sexting relationship with someone online, or it could even be an affair that lasts for years. This is the world we live in, where people want to be monogamous until a better option comes along. Don't be naive, don't be mad. Learn this game!

Taken But Looking. Men and women both know that a person who is unhappy in a relationship is easier to attract than a person who's single. Women love forbidden fruit. The guys who are taken are much more appealing than the boys who are clearly single for a reason. Men love the lack of stress that comes with a woman who is already involved because, unlike men who cheat, women who creep tend to be extremely careful. Not until I began this website did I truly realize the extent to which women cheat. I've gotten email confessions from these kinds of women, and I don't judge them; I want to give them high-fives for the 007 shit they pull off. Womankind is truly smarter because most men will never know how neatly they cheat.

Is it okay to pursue someone in a committed relationship? No one can tell you YES or NO, because your morals are just that, "yours." Nevertheless, I want you to think about this: Men having a woman on the side is commonplace in damn near every advanced culture. When you get money involved, you will be hard-pressed to find a wealthy man who doesn't have a wife and a girlfriend. Since I've written Ho Tactics, I've even some of these girlfriends who are literally involved with household names. It's a way of life no matter how you feel personally feel about it.

Today, I want to address those of you who don't mind dating a man who has a woman and give you some smart strategy so you don't end up being used and victimized like some sex object. The goal of this site is empowerment, even the dark side, so strap in, take notes, and let's learn the dark ways of Sparta. Dating a man who is already involved isn't about being better than the woman he already has it's about understanding what a man is lacking emotionally and baiting him with three simple words you whisper in his ear, "I...

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Would you date yourself? Would you marry yourself? The egotistical answer is "I'm amazing, who wouldn't want me..." but when's the last time you did a deep dive into your personality? Your attitude is moody, your hobbies aren't that exciting, and your communication skills are trash. The reality is most people don't know themselves, you live in your skin, but you don't see your own bullshit.

Work. Scroll on your phone. Laugh at a few videos. Eat. Shit. Sleep. Repeat... wow you're so exciting.

What's your appeal outside of your vagina? Men who aren't losers don't care about your job or money. So what's left? Guys only pretend you're interesting so they can have sex with you, but once they get it, they're not staying because their entire pursuit was cap. They gassed you up like you were special, then treated you like an afterthought. It's not that you can't find someone; it's that the ones who find you don't want you after they sample the goods, yet you still refuse to look in the mirror at what's wrong... it's YOU.

Are you funny, or do you just talk? Are you deep? I'm not talking about what your grades were or your degree... can you hold a meaningful conversation? When you go on these dates and sit across from a man, what do you say that makes him see you as a "wife" and not just a piece of pussy? Nothing. You giggle, you talk about shallow topics, and you allow sexual tension and flirting to win out because you don't have any wit or any fun stories outside of gossip, and there's nothing you have to say that stands out.

You're not a must have. You're just another girl in a sea full of women that a man wants to put his dick in just because. Even when you stumble into these short relationships, you don't wow anyone. You do the same boring things with the same boring men, then once they're done using you up, they move on to the next woman while you say dumb shit like, "Men are so confusing," men aren't confusing they're predictable. No one wants to be stuck with a woman who has the personality of oatmeal, so the moment he can do better, he will go off and do better and leave you hanging. Your pussy may be wet, but your personality is dry!

Recognize that men will never be honest when they're looking to get a turn. They want to hit, so they tell you what you want to hear, and even though you're smart enough to know he's lying, your thirst for love turns you dick dumb, and you allow a man who has no business in your phone, between your legs.

"G.L. why did he change up? Was it something I said? Was it something I did"

Sis, he didn't change up, you just didn't know him. You assumed, you hoped, you wished upon a fucking star, but you didn't know that man, and that's the kind of simple shit that will always get you hurt. Your big ass ego gives you a big ass head, and you think that you're too good to be played... until you get played. You don't check anyone's box besides "I would fuck" because you date from a place of insecurity, not from a throne. You're a goddess who gets treated like a peasant and it's time to work on that!

On today's podcast we're going to break down how to break the habit of being yourself with some tough love on how to hit reset. Plus we discuss how to Spartan Up and break bad habits even if you didn't read my books until later in life. And, of course, we answer all of your dating questions, ranging from attachment styles to how to keep someone's attention once the lust starts to die out.

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Would you date yourself? Would you marry yourself? The egotistical answer is "I'm amazing, who wouldn't want me..." but when's the last time you did a deep dive into your personality? Your attitude is moody, your hobbies aren't that exciting, and your communication skills are trash. The reality is most people don't know themselves, you live in your skin, but you don't see your own bullshit.

Work. Scroll on your phone. Laugh at a few videos. Eat. Shit. Sleep. Repeat... wow you're so exciting.

What's your appeal outside of your vagina? Men who aren't losers don't care about your job or money. So what's left? Guys only pretend you're interesting so they can have sex with you, but once they get it, they're not staying because their entire pursuit was cap. They gassed you up like you were special, then treated you like an afterthought. It's not that you can't find someone; it's that the ones who find you don't want you after they sample the goods, yet you still refuse to look in the mirror at what's wrong... it's YOU.

Are you funny, or do you just talk? Are you deep? I'm not talking about what your grades were or your degree... can you hold a meaningful conversation? When you go on these dates and sit across from a man, what do you say that makes him see you as a "wife" and not just a piece of pussy? Nothing. You giggle, you talk about shallow topics, and you allow sexual tension and flirting to win out because you don't have any wit or any fun stories outside of gossip, and there's nothing you have to say that stands out.

You're not a must have. You're just another girl in a sea full of women that a man wants to put his dick in just because. Even when you stumble into these short relationships, you don't wow anyone. You do the same boring things with the same boring men, then once they're done using you up, they move on to the next woman while you say dumb shit like, "Men are so confusing," men aren't confusing they're predictable. No one wants to be stuck with a woman who has the personality of oatmeal, so the moment he can do better, he will go off and do better and leave you hanging. Your pussy may be wet, but your personality is dry!

On today's podcast we're going to break down how to break the habit of being yourself with some tough love on how to hit reset. Plus we discuss how to Spartan Up and break bad habits even if you didn't read my books until later in life. And, of course, we answer all of your dating questions, ranging from attachment styles to how to keep someone's attention once the lust starts to die out.

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Situationships that start and stop. Constantly hoping someone is "different" this time around. Being in a toxic relationship and trying to look on the bright side... Ladies, what you're doing is drinking piss and calling it a French 75. You accept who you can get, give them EVERYTHING, and still lose out. You are DOWN BAD. Meanwhile, these Hos are literally on Greek Islands spending the money of the kind of men you would pay half the rent for!

A woman's position isn't at the head of the table, it's on her ass, in a throne, using her brain to inspire her King. What's your life like? Forced to do everything yourself because you don't have a king, you deal with clowns who use you, fuck you, and rarely spend a dime because they've already fucked you. How many times have you gone the extra mile for a guy who gave ZERO fucks that it was your birthday month??? Education is everything. Instead of settling or even complaining about this kind of romantic life, you should LEARN how to attract the kind of men who want to sit you on a throne, not the kind that want to compete for that crown or use you as a Placeholder.

Countless women have read my book Ho Tactics (click here because you need to read it and know who Maria is if you're going to understand the Game Plan I'm about to lay out) it's been in the top 20 of books since if first came out and Spoiler Alert... Ho Tactics 2 is on the way... It's changed lives because as a man, I gave away the secrets to what makes the majority of us trick on you without giving up the pussy.

Making men invest, not prostitute yourself. is hustling smarter without sacrificing your dignity. Men respect those kinds of women, even while complaining about it and that's why it will ALWAYS work. Thinking like a Ho but maintaining the swagger of a classy lady is a contradiction that appeals to guys on a level that they can't even understand.

I've given advice to all types of women privately, from actresses on some of your favorite shows to some of the Instafamous baddies you see on your timeline everyday. They understood the assignment, embraced the game, and did what I said without fear... then there are women who are just too nice to do anything I write about or the things I suggest because let's face it, mindfucking a man with Ho Tactics goes against their moral upbringing.

I'm afraid. I don't want to lie to a man. I just want them to love me for me. Why should I play games to get a guy? What if he sees what I'm up to and cuts me off. Wah Wah fucking Wah!

I'm not trying to get your soul sent to hell or whatever punishment you believe in, what I'm about to do is show you that it's not about doing someone wrong, it's all about projecting what a man wants to get him to give you the love you're seeking. Ask any older woman what they've learned about men in 50 or 60 years and they will tell you that males are ego driven and sex driven. Control his ego, control his lust, and you'll OWN his heart.

Lesson One: Be a Good Person Not a Nice Person

I'm going to make it so that you have a man by New Years Eve to kiss. If you already have a man, I'm going to make it so that you have a better one or... trust there is always a better one. However, the first roadblock is that You're too fucking nice. You're too fucking humble. You're too fucking shy in situations where you need to use your big girl bark!

When a man meets you, he's at your mercy. He likes you, he wants to get to know you, and of course he wants to fuck you. No matter if he's a good man or a fuck boy, the first aim is the same. He's giving you the power because you have what he wants.

What do you do when a man is chasing you? Doesn't matter if it's online or offline, in your inbox or in your face. What do you do when a man is opening himself up in pursuit of you? Hos seduce and destroy while allowing a man to think he's in control, but he's not. You can't compete with that because you don't even know what I mean by seduce nor do you totally get the metaphor of destroy in this context. You're not hip, you're a square, who dates by the book which means that the moment a man gives you power you give it right back because you don't know what to do with a dick but fuck it, suck it, and hope it loves you back. Not in Sparta!

When I talk about seduce it means that you MUST be willing to engage with any man no matter how handsome, rich, or intimidating and do three core things...

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Getting dates are easy these days. If you have an internet connection and a cute picture you can log onto any dating app, swipe, and have some guy willing to take you out by the weekend. BUT... attracting quality dates and avoiding fuck boys is a little bit more complex. The relationship or deep dating stage is where most of you are going to struggle. The vibes are amazing those first few dates. The mask is on tight, and even the most jaded and guarded woman thinks, "Wow, I've finally found a good one..." or so the fuck you thought...

Weeks of love bombing and deep conversations, surprise, you're open. Calling him "your person" and throwing pussy like it's an Olympic sport, you cut everyone else off because you only want him... Gotcha bitch! Once a man has you open, that fake Mr. Perfect mask comes off, and his true personality is on display. There are so many men with childhood damage, emotional baggage, and raging insecurities that make them your worst nightmare AFTER you've already fallen in love. You don't fall for men often, but when you do why is it always one that's broken... how do you fix it and reset that relationship?

"G.L. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and we don't go on dates,

we never discuss marriage anymore, and we barely have sex.

What am I doing wrong and how can I turn the tables in my relationship."

You want who you want, but who you want doesn't want you on that same level and it shows! Love is supposed to be easy. Love is supposed to make you feel happy and special. What you have isn't love, it's comfort. Your relationship is too hot and cold, too complicated, and too messy to ever be categorized as true love.

You're in love with the "idea" of who your boyfriend once was, the guy who finally showered you with love and loyalty and made you feel complete... But that potential didn't live up to the hype. You fell in love with "potential" and now you have to live with the reality of who you picked: A man who doesn't communicate what he's going through. A man doesn't go above and beyond romantically to make you feel like you're the only girl in the world. A man who doesn't even want to have sex with you like he once did because your coochie is expired.

Men chase, catch you, and then treat you like a 3rd option in your own relationship because it was NOTHING but lust. Lust does not sustain a relationship. Pretty becomes normal when you see it every damn day. Your pussy drove him crazy before he had it, but now he's yawning because the woman attached to that vagina isn't who he actually wants. It's not a physical issue, it's mental. These dudes will sit around watching TikTok Thots dance on mute, dick hard as a rock, yet can barely get it up for you... but that's bae? This guy is who you cry over?

Here you are with this man who doesn't 100% love you, who doesn't really want to fuck your expired vagina, and who would rather hang out with friends, work, or even play the video game than be around your ass... and you want to make it work because...? You don't date multiple men, you pick one, vibe, and fall head over heels, and won't give up on him because you're too afraid to go find better.

You can't do better, you haven't done better, so settle for who you have and make it work like just another typical bitch in another weak ass relationship where you pretend that you're happy but you know damn well YOUR MAN is just waiting for someone else to come along so he can get the type of woman he always wanted. Again, this is who you cry over?

You're in love with love, a hopeless romantic and all that fairytale mindset has gotten you is a role playing a stepping stone in your own story. Men are the main characters of your world, and you've chosen to exist in their shadows. Compromise, sacrifice, move across the country, even cut off friends for men who don't even want you... you're not even a supporting character in your own world, you're barely a guest star.

You have ZERO other options because you either didn't read Date Like A Spartan or you didn't put the plan into effect. Instead of following my books step by step you DATED LIKE A BASICA and now you want to understand him, make it work, and even still see marriage in the picture. Anything is better than starting over on the dating apps even a mediocre relationship with a man who says he loves you but doesn't show it.

Bringing out The Good Man In A Failing Relationship

Let's pretend that the guy you're dating or in a relationship with does have more than potential, you two just aren't on the same page. Is there a way to fix what you have and be happy again? YES. There are countless couples who work through issues, complete therapy together, and learn how to communicate their issues in a healthy way. I know you don't have time nor maybe the money or patience for couples therapy, so I'm going to give you two avenues today:

For those of you in a relationship I'm going to show you how to reset things with your boyfriend.

For those of you who are single and in the dating stage I'm going to break down how to get a commitment in a healthy way so you never have this problem going forward.

Step 1: Making Your Man Love You Again

We as males aren't always honest. One of the biggest things we hide is our...

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

"Do good men even exist," cries the Basic Bitch who gets played every summer. Of course they do! If you go offline and make friends in quality places you'll see there are so many happy couples raising kids and building generational wealth. You can't relate to that woman living rent free in Long Island with the provider boyfriend. You relate to the dummies online who share dick and post messy screenshots because all know are cheaters, liars, and narcissist that pick you up and put you down. That's not living in your power, beloved! Today I'm going to show you how to get out of that low-vibrational mindset and show you how to attract quality men.

You take L's in your love life because you've convinced yourself that you aren't good enough. You attract what you think! ...and if we're being honest, you don't believe you're a bad bitch, that's why you keep making the same mistake year after year after fucking year anytime an attractive man gives you attention.

Some of you are so paranoid that you’re going to be played, ghosted, cheated on, etc… that you talk yourself out of a good thing, cut people off too quickly, or refuse to date altogether. Today I want to help calm your mind with some positive reinforcement and ways to test someone’s true intent.

What are signs that this isn’t a game? How can you be sure that it’s not lust, short-term infatuation, or you’re not a Placeholder? Men will say anything and do anything to get what's between your legs. "He loves me for me," nah, he doesn't even really like you. Bro only wants to fuck and sees you as an easy mark! If you're reading this instead of scrolling TikTok videos then I KNOW you're intelligent... but are you WISE enough to figure out who deserves your time and who is running a long term hustle? Let's take a quiz...

A man love bombing you with gifts, means nothing.

A man dropping the L-word, means nothing.

A man buying you a plane ticket to come see him or deleting his dating app for you, means nothing!

A man eating your pussy for hours or holding you after sex like he loves you may feel warm and fulfilling, but it means nothing!

When a guy looks good, treats you good, and talks to you as if you're the only girl on the planet for him, your inner child goes crazy. "Thank you, Jesus, this is what I've prayed for and you've sent him..." Hold the fuck up, Mary Mary. The initial chase is a false mask, that we as men put on so we can earn fast access to your coochie. This is easy to see through if a man is "just okay" but when you're dealing with someone who looks better than your exes or has true wealth, you ignore the red flags. You want to believe in the fantasy that you've finally gotten what you've always wanted. Hope is a dangerous thing for a weak woman.

After a man gets what he came for he'll fallback or make up some excuse, and even though he's not telling you the truth, you know why... you weren't what he wanted... you're never what any man wants. So there you are back where you started, swearing you're done with love, proclaiming there are not good men. Instead of playing the victim, understand your mistakes!

A Man In Love Vs. Lust

I'm going to test how smart you are. Can you tell lust from love? Can you tell when a man is actually busy or just ignoring you? The number one lie a man tells a woman is...

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