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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

If you asked me in 2025 what is the biggest dating problem you see, it comes down to two areas.

Dating Stage: You don’t know the proper avenues to meet quality men. Emphasis on QUALITY. You lack the aggression to go for the men you want and build a roster. Instead, you have a revolving phone of clowns who text you, bullshit shit you, and then cool on you. “What’s wrong with me that I can’t find anyone genuine,” …I’m about to show you.

Relationship Stage: You fall hard for low-vibrational men and let them waste your time. Because you fucked up in the dating stage, you end up settling for guys who are either beneath you, are looking to manipulate you, or are keeping secrets from you. But by the time you realize this, it’s too late. You’re comfortable, don’t have other options, and you’ve grown too attached to walk away so you have to make this work. …don’t worry about to put my foot in your ass too!

Why does Gaslighting make you wet, Basica?

Manifesting your person isn’t luck, it isn’t a coincidence, it’s an exercise in bending YOUR fucking Universe to your will by having the power and confidence to always get what you want. The Best Dating Advice, you will ever get is to DATE SELFISHLY. But half of you are afraid to date in this manner, and the rest of you are like, “G.L., what does that even mean?”

You are a woman, the ultimate prize. Men compete with each other, drain their bank accounts, leave entire families, crash out when you reject them, and ruin their careers for what’s between your legs. “Women are crazy, bro” No bitch boy, MEN are the crazy ones when you add up the history of this world and things that have been done in the name of impressing a woman. Pussy Whipping without giving up Pussy is in your DNA! Yet you want to sit up there and center these peasant ass men like they’re so special? Men are beneath you, and they know it. Right now, there are guys paying for pictures of feet and beating off to IG photos because behind closed doors, these men worship you, and most importantly, they want to own you! It’s time to learn how to activate this power over men instead of shying away in the name of “please pick me.”

The greatest trick the devil ever pulled was to dangle “You need me, or you’ll be lonely” over a woman’s head. Men need you more than you need them, and this targeted attack on your self-esteem has made you feel as if you have to settle for less, give up sex fast, and be happy with some shit-stain boxer-wearing boy taking you on a some weak ass date. Small men gaslight strong women into being grateful for crumbs. That confusion you feel when you get ghosted or feel stuck in a situationship isn’t an accident. It’s purposeful. High standards are beaten out of women by making them feel guilty for wanting nice things. Confidence is chipped away with verbal abuse about how you aren’t “all that.” A powerful woman who knows the secret that men will do anything if she pushes the right buttons is a scary force. This is why men use every tactic in the book to humble you until you’re willing to lower your standards. It’s not about love it’s about control!

“Females today are dumb…” Do you see how they try to devalue you before you can rise up? You’re not a fucking female you’re a God. Wake the fuck up from the Matrix. You are One of One! Yes, you make mistakes. Yes, your self-esteem has taken a beating. But don’t ever look in that mirror and think that you aren’t pretty as fuck, sexy as fuck, and smart enough to get these men to bend the fucking knee!

How Do I Take Back Power? How Do I Stay Strong Even When They Beat Me Down? How Do I Spartan Up FOR GOOD…

Today I’m releasing the all new Solving Single 10 Year Anniversary Edition. I waited a long time to get the rights to this book back because there were a lot of things on my chest that I wanted to add to this book. New chapters. New Audio Narration. New You! This book will hold your hand and go step by step through the process of dating, relationships, and rebuilding yourself into the fucking Goddess you were meant to be! This isn’t a book it’s a weapon! Get it ASAP.

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

One month, you’re thinking you finally found the one. The next month, they won’t even respond to a text. All those feelings get dismissed quicker than a Drake lawsuit, and you don’t even know what went wrong. Deep talks, lit nights, big promises—and now the best thing you can hope for is that they watch your IG story and remember what they just threw away… but you’re not dumb, no matter how much they still check in on you, what you had is over. They’ll move on fast, find someone new, and you’ll be a memory.

Meanwhile, you’ll keep dwelling on them, unable to move on because every new person you try to force yourself to like just doesn’t bring that same vibe. You’re sick of having your heart broken. You’re tired of having to fake like you’re unbothered by rejection. You’re carrying a hurt that’s slowly turning into desperation, and even though you swore you wouldn’t think weak basic thoughts, you’re ready to pop up and swallow every ounce of self-respect because you want another chance to prove you’re worth loving.

Tell me what I did. I can fix it. This has to work… emotional pain will have strong people doing disgustingly weak things in the name of being loved. Your biggest fear is that NO ONE will ever love you, and no matter how tough you act, all your Bad Bitch confidence shrivels up when someone you were into cools on you.

"Attention isn't love. Attraction is not attachment."
-G.L. Lambert

You weren't born basic. Even in high school, you knew better. But time humbles women. The things you wouldn't put up with before... the guys you would never give a second chance to in the past, the bullshit that you would have exposed easily... you now accept. The older you get, the more it sinks in, "What if I never find love?" and that's why you entertain men who have no business being in your life. Your thirst to be validated, to be claimed, to be a fucking "Mrs." has made you a fucking fool. Do you know who doesn't change? Men who know their worth. He didn't lead you on. He led you to your truth: You're too thirsty to be a woman he would move mountains for. You're a leftover, not a Game Changer.

As men, our feelings change like the weather based on a lot of factors, most of which are so small and petty that we would rather ghost you than admit why we fell back. Think about how it started. Men chase you with all kinds of pressure. We catch you and shower insane amounts of affection on you. Then we drop your ass because we now see SOMETHING that we ignored when we were blinded by your face, your ass, your titties, or your kindness. Men see "incompatibility." You're not a bad person, but you're not spectacular, either. You do things, say things, and ARE something that we don't actually want for the long run.

There you are, laid up in bed, playing in his hair while he strokes your thighs, thanking God that you finally found your future husband. Meanwhile, this dude is right next to you thinking, “I don’t even think I like this bitch anymore…”  Kissing you one moment, trying to figure out how to cut you off the next. I’m not trying to be mean. I’m being real. That’s what it’s like to be a man who has run out of lust and now admits to himself that you have too many deal breakers for him to ever see as wifey.

Some of you are in positions where a man doesn't completely vanish. Your ex stays in the background, hits you up, jokes, maybe invites you to places but it's no longer as his "girl" it's as his "sis". Here you are still in love with this man, and he's treating you like his Bro. Are you ugly? Is this a test? Should you just play along and wait for him to see you as the kind of woman he needs?

On today’s show, we’re going to break down what happens when a man stops seeing you as romantic and starts seeing you as “just a friend” and how to power through and regain your power. Plus, we answer questions on the blueprint to dating in a small city without that many options, avoiding sex pressure after dates, exes who pop back into your life, and much more. Don’t miss out on this episode.

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

If the Universe meant for you to be with that man, then the Universe would have made that man act right... bullshit.

You two couldn't get along because of personality differences...

He moved away and didn't want to do long distance...

He was still working on himself.. and you're still working on you...

Life isn't cut and dry. You meet people who ARE perfect for you, but one of you fucked it up. Now here you are, single as a dollar bill, still thinking about someone from your distant past or recent past, and your anxiety gives way to logic: "The person I'm meant to be with was right there, and I fucked it up."

Life isn't a make-believe fairy tale where things work out in the end. Life is about wisdom that comes from choices. You learn lessons and stop making mistakes. OR. You don't learn your lesson and keep making the same mistakes. I don't care how "good" of a person you are. If you don't heal your hurt from your childhood, it will fuck you for life. If you aren't strong enough to look into your soul and face your insecurities, conquer your personality flaws, and change for the better, life will keep setting you up with tests where you will keep failing. Why be so cruel? Because life isn't a happy fucking dance, it's a training ground to make you into the best version of yourself.

Look at the last year of your life. Have you grown or are you still relapsing? Can you fly above the haters, snatch the souls of men, deal with your own emotions before they explode, and be proud of the woman staring back in that mirror? No. You're still out here being basic, fumbling relationships, crying over dumb shit, and unable to inspire real love, just lust. This isn't who you were meant to be!

Today we need to talk about starting your life over and repairing the damage of your past so you can finally wake the fuck up and be a Goddess who manifests at will! Big pussy energy is the process of becoming confident, self-aware, and so undeniable that you can have any man you want. Be it a new guy on an app, a platonic friend that you're afraid to cross that line with, or that "one who got away."

Sit and wait = you settle for whatever you can get.

Level up and attack = go get whoever you have a taste for because you KNOW you are that bitch.

What life do you want to live?

Even When Going Backwards A Spartan Moves Forward.

Let me start with a story of a woman who emailed me last year. I'll code name her "Weak Bitch Wanda" and her story started like a lot of yours. Wanda had been seeing this guy "...

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

One month, you’re thinking you finally found the one. The next month, they won’t even respond to a text. All those feelings get dismissed quicker than a Drake lawsuit, and you don’t even know what went wrong. Deep talks, lit nights, big promises—and now the best thing you can hope for is that they watch your IG story and remember what they just threw away… but you’re not dumb, no matter how much they still check in on you, what you had is over. They’ll move on fast, find someone new, and you’ll be a memory.

Meanwhile, you’ll keep dwelling on them, unable to move on because every new person you try to force yourself to like just doesn’t bring that same vibe. You’re sick of having your heart broken. You’re tired of having to fake like you’re unbothered by rejection. You’re carrying a hurt that’s slowly turning into desperation, and even though you swore you wouldn’t think weak basic thoughts, you’re ready to pop up and swallow every ounce of self-respect because you want another chance to prove you’re worth loving.

Tell me what I did. I can fix it. This has to work… emotional pain will have strong people doing disgustingly weak things in the name of being loved. Your biggest fear is that NO ONE will ever love you, and no matter how tough you act, all your Bad Bitch confidence shrivels up when someone you were into cools on you.

"Attention isn't love. Attraction is not attachment." -G.L. Lambert

As men, our feelings change like the weather based on a lot of factors, most of which are so small and petty that we would rather ghost you than admit why we fell back. Think about how it started. Men chase you with all kinds of pressure. We catch you and shower insane amounts of affection on you. Then we drop your ass because we now see SOMETHING that we ignored when we were blinded by your face, your ass, your titties, or your kindness. Men see "incompatibility." You're not a bad person, but you're not spectacular, either. You do things, say things, and ARE something that we don't actually want for the long run.

There you are, laid up in bed, playing in his hair while he strokes your thighs, thanking God that you finally found your future husband. Meanwhile, this dude is right next to you thinking, “I don’t even think I like this bitch anymore…”  Kissing you one moment, trying to figure out how to cut you off the next. I’m not trying to be mean. I’m being real. That’s what it’s like to be a man who has run out of lust and now admits to himself that you have too many deal breakers for him to ever see as wifey.

Some of you are in positions where a man doesn't completely vanish. Your ex stays in the background, hits you up, jokes, maybe invites you to places but it's no longer as his "girl" it's as his "sis". Here you are still in love with this man, and he's treating you like his Bro. Are you ugly? Is this a test? Should you just play along and wait for him to see you as the kind of woman he needs?

On today’s show, we’re going to break down what happens when a man stops seeing you as romantic and starts seeing you as “just a friend” and how to power through and regain your power. Plus, we answer questions on the blueprint to dating in a small city without that many options, avoiding sex pressure after dates, exes who pop back into your life, and much more. Don’t miss out on this episode.

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

“G.L., I met a guy while trying to work on myself, and I had sex too fast… how can I reset this?”

“G.L. I met, I think I met my husband, but he lives in different cities, and he’s starting to grow  distant… how can I reset this?”

“G.L., I met this mark who’s insanely wealthy, but I may have turned him off, and he’s no longer responding… how can I reset this?”

Every month, I get questions about how to reset situations, ranging from the dating stage to the relationship stage and even the sponsor or trick stage. What you’re all telling me is simple:

The moment you get a good thing going with a man, you fumble and fuck it up because you don’t know how to date in power and glue a man to you.

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Every year, you claim it’s going to be different, then here you are in a whole new year, repeating the same mistakes. Your brain no longer believes the affirmations that come out of your mouth because you let yourself down the moment some guy gasses you with attention. There's not a problem with the dating world. There's a problem with how you THINK. Everything in this universe is mental, and you're broken!

Every time this world tests you, you mess up. Every time you have a chance to prove you’re different from the OLD YOU, you fuck up again. Your life is a constant struggle of “it never works out.” You were supposed to be special, beloved but here you are nodding along with all the other heartbroken Basicas on your timeline because you can relate with their struggle. Special women use their past mistakes as a blueprint for ascension. Basic women stay stuck in the mud, content with taking L’s.

Do you really want to reset your past mistakes, or are you just talking out of your ass? If you don’t want this power to get what you want, then move the fuck off this page and go scroll through TikTok. BUT if you’re ready to read, apply, and make this year your year. Then here is a 5 STEP survival guide for the top situations you’re going to run up against in 2025…

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Step #1 You’re Too Old To Believe In Fairy Tales

"Going out isn't everything. We talk like twice a day when he's not busy."

Yeah, okay.... "Not busy" doing what exactly? Fucking his other girl? Spending time with the family he's hiding? Earth to Basica: Your entire dating life is built around men who don't see you as a priority. These guys throw a crumb of attention your way and confuse it with a full-course meal because it's rare that you meet someone you like. This Cinderella delusion is a mental disease where you think this man who you talk to, yet rarely see, is going to ride in and fully commit. Your work life is boring. Your friends are boring. Your entire life is uneventful and dry, and these men know it. Waiting on their text is all you have, so why the hell would he give a weak-ass woman like you more when he has that kind of power over you?

Texting or talking without taking you out is not a relationship! Stop letting these men play in your face and keep you open with an "I miss you." What does he miss? The emojis you send? If he wanted you, he would put in the time, effort, and money to take you out. Your dizzy ass is over there trying to match your first name with his last name because you think you're wifey. Do you understand how men treat wifey types? They clear schedules, they plan dates, they surprise, and they spoil because special women are always worth going the extra mile for! These dudes are quick to send you to voice mail, yet you still call them "bae".

Stop carrying people on your shoulders in the name of love. If the energy isn't mutual recognize that it's time to let go, not live in the delusion of "One day they'll treat me better." You're doing all the work, and it won't pay off in the end. There's nothing wrong with being a romantic and loving the concept of being in love. But there is a huge fucking problem with falling fast for people who will NEVER be what you're hoping.

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Let me shift to another area of fuck ups: The Long distance relationships. There are women who meet the perfect guy, and then suddenly he moves away, and now his absence destroys your common sense to the point where you stop dating and fixate on some guy who will never save himself for you, wait for you, nor come chasing after you. I've been in a few Long Distance situations, and let me break down how we men think. First off, a man never...

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Today, G.L. Lambert talks about the 48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduction and gives you a no-bullshit game plan that you can use to cut through the nonsense of Self-Help books and get real results. Stop mixing and matching from all these different books, videos, and influencer sources that fuck up your path to Spartanhood. A lack of direction is why you keep fumbling EVERY opportunity the Universe throws at you. In this audio article, we're going to dive into:

The Art of Conversation Starters

The Art of teasing

The Art of baiting a man through text messages

The Art of rebuilding yourself from overly masculine into divinely feminine and sensual

The Art of soul tying in order to get real love not temporary lust

Every day, you make a choice to believe in your power or make excuses as to why something isn't working. In today's tough love session, learn to break free of the mental war and become the Goddess you know you can be. We're leaving fuck boys, basic thoughts, and weak bitch ways in 2024!

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You let men do what they want because you don't know how to lead them, tease them, and mindfuck them to the point where you can literally walk away, fuck with another guy, and still have that last guy on your clit. Even reading these words, you don't fully understand that YOU are HER. A trophy, a goddess, a SPARTAN.

Girl A: How do I get this guy I like to do blah blah fucking blah?

Girl B: I have three guys who like me, and they all know about each other.

Which girl are you? The one crying over a boy or the one who has boys in their feelings?

When was the last time you challenged a man? When was the last time you used reverse psychology on a date? Do you even know how to mindfuck, sis? You're afraid to rock the boat and make them chase because you've spent so long praying to be PICKED.

Men respond to competition. BUT You say dumb shit like, "I don't even have a roster..."

Men crave women who don't give them attention. BUT You clear your schedule the moment he wants to see you...

Men are controlled by a fear that they aren't good enough. BUT You stroke his ego to the point where he takes you for granted...

"Dating is too hard. I don't have time for games," mumbles the Basica who still fucks her ex. Ma'am, you are failing at the love game and pretending you don't try because you're embarrassed. It's not that you don't have time. It's that you don't have the confidence to play the game I've written about in Date Like A Spartan or Ho Tactics. The most important choice you can make is who you allow between your legs and into your heart. A woman who doesn't take control of her destiny when it comes to love, career, or finances is a B-U-M.

Imagine how powerful you could be if you went after your goals like no one could stop you instead of sitting around and waiting for something to happen. You’re afraid to be aggressive, rarely take risks, and then get confused as to why nothing manifests. The secret isn’t to wait and pray.

Successful people formulate a plan and go for what they want without fear. Your playbook is to think think think... talk talk talk... and then sit there and complain that life sucks because nothing you wanted to happen ever happens. Life doesn’t suck. Your drive sucks. Your follow-through sucks. You constantly fumble your own greatness because you’re terrified of failing and embarrassing yourself. All your potential is handcuffed by an overblown ego that keeps you at the same level year after year. You don’t want better. You want safety. How can you ever evolve into a powerful woman when you're content being a weak ass little girl?

Weak bitches settle for a life of regret. Spartan women step up to the challenge knowing that they are magical as fuck because they think differently! Which one are you going to be in 2025?

Today's episode we break down being a Full Blooded Spartan, Making Men Earn Sex, Starting Ho Tactics at any age, and of course how men are easy if you know what drives us! Don't miss out. Press Play Below!

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

The episode you have been demanding! Today, G.L. Lambert talks about the 48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduction and gives you a no-bullshit game plan that you can use to cut through the nonsense of Self-Help books and get real results. Stop mixing and matching from all these different books, videos, and influencer sources that fuck up your path to Spartanhood. A lack of direction is why you keep fumbling EVERY opportunity the Universe throws at you. In this episode, we're going to dive into:

The Art of Conversation Starters

The Art of teasing

The Art of baiting a man through text messages

The Art of rebuilding yourself from overly masculine into divinely feminine and sensual

The Art of soul tying in order to get real love not temporary lust

Every day, you make a choice to believe in your power or make excuses as to why something isn't working. In today's tough love session, learn to break free of the mental war and become the Goddess you know you can be. We're leaving fuck boys, basic thoughts, and weak bitch ways in 2024!

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250 pages that will help you redefine the woman you need to become to Spartan Up in ANY situation!

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-What are you doing wrong that other women do right?

-The difference between being Passive and a Main Character that manifests at will!

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