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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Almost Bae: That person who you meet, does EVERYTHING right for the first month or two, you fall hard for, then they begin to show their true colors—they have too many issues to ever truly be THE ONE.

Many of you reading this are single, BUT you have options. Even when you say “I don’t have anyone” there is always someone, don’t lie. That one on and off guy who still watches all your stories on social media. That one guy who wants a chance with you but you’re not sure, so you keep him on ice. And of course, Mr. New Potential, those guys you tend to meet every few months that really impress you… but end up more of the same.

Ladies, you’re single but you’re not unwanted. You have options, but your intuition tells you that “Nah, this isn’t the move.” It gets frustrating because you don’t want to choose wrong or go backwards. You’re indecisive on who you should date and in the end that confusion is proof that you’re not as confident as you should be because of the types of men you come across. You can get the low vibrational men. You can get attention from the weirdos, hornballs, or cheater guys who have girlfriends. But why aren't you a MUST HAVE for high value single men? What's wrong with you that you can't tap into your feminine power and make these men chase you!? Do you even read my books? Do you even pay attention to what I write? You’re not embracing power, Basica! You’re floating in the wind unsure of your value and tired of being alone, and that’s when the guys you don’t need, smell your weak bitch perfume, then move in on you, talk a good game, chip at your common sense, and next thing you know your mind is open right along with your coochie. You swore you were a different woman looking for a better type of man, yet here you go again back in the circus!

Why do you keep letting the wrong ones in?

He’s changed and is going to now come correct and fix our issues = Delusion.

He needs me, the rest of these girls aren’t it that’s why he’s back in my inbox = Ego.

If I don’t give him a chance and someone else scoops him, I’m going to be sick = Fear.

Delusional, egotistical, fear-based men and women will always self-sabotage themselves, choose wrong, and make the same mistakes the universe tried SO HARD to correct in the past. You can’t win at dating because you don’t trust yourself to pick a quality person. A woman’s intuition is a powerful tool, but you’ve ruined yours by always going against your gut and buying into what some bum is whispering in your ear. You’re too easy to impress and too quick to forgive. You’re a Queen transformed into a fool all because this latest dude has “potential”. Sis, it’s time to do better!

Do you know what TRUE genuine interest looks like? No. You know what “I wanna fuck on her lust” feels like. Do you know what TRUE love feels like? No. You know what “I’m comfortable so keep being my placeholder” feels like. Your romantic options aren’t a case a bad luck, it’s a case of bad decisions! Today I want to open your eyes to what you can be doing right now to stop the cycle and reaffirm your confidence so you can stop making these teenage mistakes with men who mean you know good and manifest high-quality partners who are looking for a Grown Ass Woman who is filled with power not past damage and baggage. I’m going to give you an easy-to-understand breakdown from a woman just like you who learned to win. First I want you to ask yourself is m...

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"G.L. I'm not sure if I just have bad luck or if I'm secretly basic as fuck and subconsciously attracting the wrong kind of men. So my last three boyfriends have been amazing for the first 6-12 months then I saw mean streaks. Like these guys really hate women. It's so frustrating to meet someone that checks all the boxes, good family, fine, and excellent careers. I am a black woman who does tend to date within her race so to find desirable black males with these characteristics had me feeling blessed. G I wished I read your books years ago because I fell into a lot of the traps I just read about in your Spartan book. Guy 1, owned his own hauling company. Spoiled me rotten always called on the road. Not a cheater at all. 7 months later he pushes me into a wall because I made a comment about a cute guy on a TV show. Like are you serious. Most women would probably forgive that because of the money and treatment. Fuck that I cut him off.

Guy 2, I've known him for a long time. Commented on every story I posted but I didn't give him any play because he's a pretty boy and I could tell he was for the street. I finally went on a date with him. Our vibe was crazy, same artistic mind, I was in love and the dick was top 2 and not number 2 as they say lol. Not even a year into the relationship he started talking so much shit about how I wear my hair, the amount of makeup I wear. At the time I had not heard of you or your books as I mentioned so I didn't recognize the pattern. This snowballed into verbal abuse and like a dummy I took it because unlike the physical abuse I thought I deserved it. He was really into fitness too and would put me down anytime my weight fluctuated. He was mirroring a lot of things I would say about myself. It was hell. That relationship ended when I confided in a guy at work who told me I deserved better and promised to give that to me, this is Guy 3.

Guy 3 was a nearly 13 month relationship. He was different from the rest, such a nerdy nice guy... until he gave me an STD then blamed me for passing it to him, calling me so many whores and even told everyone at work his side of the story to the point where I had to resign. He literally ruined me mentally and even after I quit he would find ways to communicate nasty things to me. I'm much better now and thank you for all that you do but had a question. I'm sorry this is so long but even if you can't read it on your podcast I hope you can give me some insight. Why are today's men so misogynistic? I know there are good guys out here, my father is a great man, my brother as well. But there seems to be a lot of men who walk around playing this role of prince charming but are woman hating devils. Could you expand on why so many men love the idea of having a woman to sleep with or take care of them but secretly hate us."

When a guy fucks you and ghosts you is it about you or revenge on a girl you remind him of? When a man raises his hand or calls you out your name is it about what you said or anger created by his parents that he's never addressed? When a man uses money to buy your loyalty while he continues to fuck other women, it's not about the sex it's about the finally having the power he crazed when he was young, broke, and unwanted. Sexist men see women as the enemy because a "female" once hurt them. It's a bullshit little boy excuse! Look at all the women who have been hurt as girls but don't go around acting like psychopaths? Men can't handle their hurt, and sadly you all are the ones that may pay for it unless you know how to expose these types early on. Right now you may be talking to a man who looks perfect on paper, who's doing all the right things, but-- how long until the mask comes off.

I'm about to open your eyes to a lot of things in this article you're going to need. OVERstand that There are males who lead with their green flags to break down your defenses and keep their red flags in the back pocket. Men know what women want: Attention. Passion. Consistency. To feel like she's special and treated like she's special. That's easy to fake especially when that man brings more to the table than her exes. The problem is men exist on two levels: The Mask and The Real. You ladies fall so hard for that mask that by the time he reveals The Real you don't run away. My job has always been to help you all navigate dating to get the best roster of men, pick the best from that roster, and enter into a relationship with a man that you've vetted so that it can actually thrive and grow into something beautiful. I can't help you unless you know how to take a man's mask off, sooner than later. Today I'm going to put you up on game by showing you how to avoid the fakes and attract the quality guys by...

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It's never too late to reinvent yourself and become more feminine, more seductive, and more desired. A lifetime of having to check your emotions, keep your guard up, or carry the weight of of your family on your shoulders can harden a woman. When you date can you let the man lead or do you have to be in control? When you're trying to attract new men you know how to dress "sexy" but do you know how to dress sensual and attract a better breed of men who aren't just looking to have sex because they see you as a fetish? When you're in a relationship do you know how to let go of your past trauma, abandonment issues, or fear of failing to be the kind of woman a man drops his entire roster for? Too many of you are out of balance with your feminine energy and it's manifesting in your day to day life.

It's time to reinvent yourself, beloved...

You say you're "wifey" but your giving "homie" you're giving "sis" you're giving "fuck buddy." You use too much slang, you say "bro" or curse too much, and while these men smile in your face they are calling you "mannish" in their head. On Today's show we break down the blueprint for becoming soft and discuss a checklist to truly reinvent yourself. We also answer some important questions about your online persona and the ways you may secretly attracting fuckboys while pushing quality men away before they even have a chance to DM you.

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

It's never too late to reinvent yourself and become more feminine, more seductive, and more desired. A lifetime of having to check your emotions, keep your guard up, or carry the weight of of your family on your shoulders can harden a woman. When you date can you let the man lead or do you have to be in control? When you're trying to attract new men you know how to dress "sexy" but do you know how to dress sensual and attract a better breed of men who aren't just looking to have sex because they see you as a fetish? When you're in a relationship do you know how to let go of your past tra...

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"There are women we as men see as just something to do, and there are women we see as someone we have to have and hopefully one day marry... It's not about looks it's about so much more"

On today's episode we break down a sensitive topic: Settling. There are so many men who will chase you, date you, even become official... but they don't really like you. Why do men promise you the world only to still chase after other women? Is there something about you that you don't see that gets you labeled as temporary instead of long term? If they see you as a Placeholder, why manipulate your emotions?

Before you go on another date or keep going down a romantic path with your current "friend" you need to listen to this podcast and understand the mind of fraudulent males and how they use your heart against you, waste your time, and add to your trauma. It's time to learn how to be a Game Changer!

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

"There are women we as men see as just something to do, and there are women we see as someone we have to have and hopefully one day marry... It's not about looks it's about so much more"

On today's episode we break down a sensitive topic: Settling. There are so many men who will chase you, date you, even become official... but they don't really like you. Why do men promise you the world only to still chase after other women? Is there something about you that you don't see that gets you labeled as temporary instead of long term? If they see you as a Placeholder, why manipulate your emotions?

Before you go on another date or keep going down a romantic path with your current "friend" you need to listen to this podcast and understand the mind of fraudulent males and how they use your heart against you, waste your time, and add to your trauma. It's time to learn how to be a Game Changer!

Plus, we answer a bunch of reader questions on all of the topics you've been dying to hear about. Open your ears, and press play below!

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I’m always asked about first date procedure, what a man wants to see from a woman, talk about, who should pay blah blah blah because there are a lot of women who swear by this Pick Me aka “Make A Man Want Me By Any Means…” mentality. Most Pick Me’s don’t even know they’re Pick Me’s, it’s a reaction caused by subconscious desires and conscious anxiety. It’s hard to totally shake off years of basic bitch brainwashing about how you should be for a man as opposed to understanding your power and how a man should be for you. “What kind of girl does he like and how can I be like that” is how you think because you don’t know how to date.

Come over to my house to chill – you accept that basica shit because you like him and don’t want to seem stuck up or high maintenance.

Let’s grab coffee – you accept that low vibrational shit as a date because you feel a need to prove to a man that you are a team player.

I don’t believe in titles or I’m not looking for anything serious – you cling to guys who tell you these things because you see him as a catch and are delusional enough to think that if you submit long enough, fuck him good enough, and stay loyal to a non-relationship he will reward you with love.

I get it, you aren’t good with men. You’re chasing the love you never got from Daddy or you’re trying to make up for the rejection that happened with an ex boyfriend. Whatever your past trauma is, it has damaged you and made you the type of woman that men fuck over not fall for… 

What the fuck is a nap and shower date? What the fuck is exclusive but not official? What the fuck is a talking stage? How many times are you going to let these men rob you of time, pussy, and emotional bandwidth before you realize that they are making up these new rules to keep you obedient. You’re a woman, a trophy! Yet, here you are letting these men put you on a leash. Scared little girl, being controlled and mindfucked because she thinks this guy is a one in a million. No, Basica, he’s not rare, you’re just limiting your options because you don’t date like a powerful Spartan Woman!

Women today “talk” they don’t date. They get texted and sexted, but they don’t get courted. When’s the last time you were taken out by a guy you actually liked? Sure the dudes who you don’t find attractive will trick StruggleBees 2 for $20 money on you, but why is the guy you really want to be with only offering “Ay, come through I want to see you, sexy.” Telling you to come through to chill is all the respect he has for you, and clearly it’s all the respect you have for yourself when you accept that offer to come over and chill instead of being a fucking Spartan who says, “Queens don’t come through nigga, they get taken out!” No matter if a girl is a Millennial in her early twenties or a mother in her early 30’s, the mindset has become  the same, wait for a man to offer to take you out, if he doesn’t offer to take you out, just be happy that he wants to see you. This is pathetic and females who used to be so powerful are now at the mercy of men who don’t think their pussy is even worth a real time investment.

You’re not even worth dinner date money to him, but that’s bae? You’re not even worth driving across town to pick up, but that’s bae? You’re not even worth an actual phone call, just a text, but that’s bae? Bitch get your mind right! The defensive Basicas will chime in with lies about how they don’t like to talk on the phone, how they don’t need to go out, how they don’t mind meeting a man half-way. The truth is these women don’t even know the first thing about regaining control over men, so in order to seem as if they aren’t weak they hide under the umbrella of “I’m not even that type of girl that likes being courted.” LMAO! Stop fronting, every woman has a want to be loved and treated with respect, you don’t get respect from a man by sitting on the edge of his bed and watching Netflix. You don’t get respect by sitting in his car after hitting a drive through, and letting him convince you to play with his dick. You don’t get respect by being a woman who allows a man to treat her like a Pussy instead of a Queen. Men Don’t Love Women Like You was written to return the power to women because acting like naive little girls is causing you all to lose the dating war.

Kevin Gates once made a song called “Break the Bitch Down”. It was about using their own want to be wanted against them in order to get in their fragile minds was what guys have been practicing for years. Turn these girls into stalkers, make them thirsty for a phone call, junkies for attention, and desperate for a relationship is what the majority of men do with little effort because the average woman is emotionally soft when it comes to the men they actually like.

Your father probably dogged your mother out, your aunt probably has war stories about what a “good dick” did to her. It’s not about a man’s dick, it’s a bout a woman’s quest to be loved that has them acting bi-polar and pretending to be confused when the signs are obvious. A love starved woman doesn’t check a top 5 prospect, she walks on egg shells, and thinks shit like “don’t call me any more” texts or “No more pussy” threats will make him act right… it won’t.

These men are out here running the triangle offense on women and there are so many ladies that don’t know the first thing about defense. Spartans can’t be broke down! Not by rappers, ball players, CEO’s, or any other dude that gets in pussy with texts and promises. Being a Spartan isn’t about talking it’s about doing. There are a lot of women who talk about what they need, but date and accept what a man gives! 99.9% of relationship problems start at the dating level because people don’t know how to date. Some of you were afraid to use Ho Tactics, so I gave you Men Don’t Love Women Like You and Date Like A Spartan. These should be read or listened to on audible MULTIPLE TIMES, until you get it right.

Every new year you meet a guy, get excited, and then he steps all over you, and you’re back to hating men and hating yourself. I know how you think, your self-esteem is on empty and you can’t take another heartbreak at your age, you’re becoming negative and miserable, but it’s not because there aren’t any good men– it’s because you don’t know how to date in a way that challenges, exposes, and makes a man chase! I have articles on this site, podcasts, and free ebooks that are all meant to get your mind right. If you’re not a member of this site then, again I say, read the books and stop acting like you know it all. You clearly don’t know it all because look at your results. Don’t be too prideful to get help. Read. Apply. Win!

The Following is an excerpt from Date Like A Spartan:

You don’t really want to date. You don’t have the time, the energy, nor the patience to meet new people, chitchat about shit like the school you went to or the city you were born in, and spend your free time wondering if they really like you or just want to fuck you. Dating sucks because you’ve been down this road before and all it did was lead you right back to this starting point. It’s not you, it’s your city. It’s not you, it’s the quality of men you attract. There isn’t a problem with the way you date; the problem is that men today don’t date. You are a good women in a world where men value bad bitches, that’s why you will no longer waste your time with dating. “I haven’t found a good man because there are no good men to find.” Ahahahahaha! I love that! I love when weak women make excuses for losing and then set out to rectify their losing ways by not even trying… because they’re “tired and don’t have the energy.”

You don’t have time to win because you’re agitated and annoyed with the entire dating process. Good, be tired and settle into a mediocre love life where you end up settling for one of these oatmeal guys who has a steady job, a limp dick, and who will develop a drinking problem by the time you two are married because he’s just as bored as you will become. You don’t want to find a knight you to find nice enough, because every time you aim for greatness you fail. Anytime a girl tells me, “I’m tired of dating,” I hear the agony of defeat in her voice. Napoleon Hill once said, “When defeat overtakes a person, the easiest and most logical thing to do is quit. That’s exactly what the majority do.” He’s right. The majority of people in this world are quitters. Excuse making, finger pointing, tired minds, who just want to skip ahead to the part where they hit the jackpot because they don’t have the fucking guts to work at success.

Women in particular seem to have a hard time dealing with the seemingly random adversity of finding love. You go to school, and even if you aren’t that smart, all you have to do is study to get good grades, which insures that you graduate near the top of the class, and from there you can get a decent job. That process is easy because all a school wants you to do is follow the steps. Real life isn’t like school, it challenges you to learn without the benefit of a textbook, adapt quickly, and be unapologetically ruthless. So many women ask me, “What exactly do I do to win?” Those girls are still attempting to use a cut and dry academic mind, not a warrior’s ingenuity. There is no cheat sheet for dating—do this, do that, now do this, congratulations get the man. Love is war and those women who aren’t afraid to stand up and do battle with men, will win.

He didn’t call you after you gave him your number, Spartans don’t cry, they shrug. You went out to dinner and he was corny as fuck, Spartans don’t give second chances, they curve. You’ve been having great dates and now he’s pushing hard for sex, Spartans don’t give in to make him happy, fuck his happy, just for applying pressure he can wait even longer or go fuck the bottom bitch he has on the side. Relationships fail because women forget that they should be at the center of the universe. Spartans don’t get tired of dating because it’s through dating that she proves her mastery over her solar system!

Men play too many games, and I don’t have time for that. Okay, Tina Typical, what do you actually have time for? From where I’m sitting all you have is time because all you do is work, gossip, and check timelines. Men today will always play some sort of game, because they aren’t stupid enough to treat every girl like a Queen. There are so many peasants pretending to be royal, and all he has to do is swipe on Tinder, meet up that night for a Mojito, and she’ll drain his sack because “he had good conversation.” Why would a male walk around offering filet mignon to a burrito bitch? Dating is about exposing. From the day a man gets your number, he’s trying to expose you as regular, because handcuffing thots with low standards isn’t what real men do. Spartans have the same mentality, from the day a man gets her number, or vice versa, she is trying to expose him as regular because she will never give her heart to a man who isn’t exceptional.

People are rarely who they pretend to be. Men are often times exaggerating to get pussy. Women are often times yapping about what they don’t do so they don’t come off as pussy. Only through dating, can you prove what’s in a heart of a man, and only through dating (or the lack of real dating) does a man prove what’s in a woman’s head. Most women are afraid to expose men by being tough because they feel they will scare him off and lose out on a potential boyfriend. Fuck his potential. You can’t go ring shopping with potential!

It’s time to take off the nice girl gloves and show men that you aren’t like the rest. I’m not referring to having an attitude or trying to overcompensate for your lack of confidence by being bossy. That hoodrat shit doesn’t work. This dating guide is for Spartans who understand that power comes from truly being confident. Only through the Spartan way of mind, can you take control from the beginning and ride that chariot all the way into a relationship. I’m not referring to one of these lame ass relationships where you spend most of the time trying to hold it together, but a real relationship defined by mutual respect. How many women do you know in relationships get real respect? Not many, because most women are trying to keep a sinking ship afloat so they won’t have to go back to the supposed shame of being single.

Spartans don’t struggle with false-start relationships, because when they choose to start one, they make sure he’s already passed the tests! This guide isn’t about getting you through the first date, the second date, and the third date, it’s about changing the way you date forever. No more giving dudes a chance to show you more, when his actions already showed you he was full of shit. No more being open off of some tall dude that fed you a lie about how he plays ball overseas, yet really plays games from his baby mama’s basement. No more misjudging jealousy for attention. No more guessing his intentions. By the end of this read, you will know how to expose a man the right way and more importantly, how to set your value without threats and ultimatums.

Weak Bitches have a slogan, “You must not know who I am,” this is usually said after a man insults her, plays her for a fool, or has already succeeded in manipulating her. Too many women object after the harm has been done because the fear of losing a man from the jump made them wait too long to set their rules. The only women that give ultimatums are those that have already failed to impress a man. A girl will play catch up after making several mistakes within the first two weeks of knowing a man. Then she suddenly tries to boss up and reverse the current of that basic bitch river she’s speeding down… How Sway? Your entire hustle to win love has made you tired because you’ve spent all your energy doing it the wrong way, you silly bird! Men don’t respect women who allow themselves to be robbed then say, “Don’t rob me, I don’t allow that shit.” It’s too late, and you now sound stupid!

A woman that sets her value from the onset, even before the actual date, will never have her back forced against the wall and made to come out with threats about “if you don’t treat me like this then…” Spartans don’t make threats; they set expectations, and dismiss any man that doesn’t meet them.

What do you say to make him think highly of you, what do you wear so he finds you sexy, what topics do you talk about to make him see you as the wifey type, should you spend your own money to show him that you bring something to the table? YAWN! It’s time to grow the fuck up and stop dating like a child. You are a Queen. Queens don’t interview to be some motherfucker’s girlfriend; they are the ones holding the audition. Why should he get access to your Friday night? Why should he get the pleasure of spending hours talking to you over dinner? What makes this man worthy of you putting your heels on and leaving your house? What makes this man so special that you would ever press your lips against his at the end of the night, let alone grant him access to the best pussy he’s ever smelled? You are always in control, and when you date like a Spartan, you separate the boys from the men. It also gives you

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Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert

Reverse Psychology, mental baiting, and the art of driving a man to crazy... how many women are masters of these techniques? On today's show we hear from a woman who was dating like a Basica, being too honest and too naive, and how she realized that either you're playing the game or being gamed yourself. Hear G.L. break down how to play hard to get when you're first meeting a man and how to make a man keep that same energy once you're dating or in a relationship.

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playing,  knows what he wants, and is a provider at heart. Mix all of these things in a blender, and the kind of man that brings these traits to the table most likely won’t be under 35 years of age. Let’s be all the way real, the majority of males develop slow as fuck. When your life has become swiping on one lame after another on these apps or being introduced to some man-child who still centers his life around getting lit and bullshitting with his friends, you have to get the hint. A man around your age, if you happen to be in that 22-32 year old bubble, is a work in progress.

Who has time to fix a dick and turn a fuckboy into a husband? You want a man that can come in and make your world better, teach you things, and advance your life, not some idiot whose only responsibility is making sure his Xbox controllers are charged (Spoiler alert, they’re not because he can’t even remember to do that right). Ladies, the sad reality is that more than half of you won’t be able to find the level of man you want with guys who were born the same year you were. Going older is no longer for women with Daddy issues and grey beard fetishes, it’s a viable option for any woman who wants to get serious now, not 7 years from now once these little boys decide they’re ready.

"But what if people think I'm a sugar baby? What will my parents say? How do I act and talk around someone who isn't from my generation?" Chill... I'm going to get to all of that today!

Age Does Matter

Men 18-24: Don’t take anything seriously, think they have all the answers but don’t know shit, live like they’re invincible, and want to fuck everything that moves… The chances of a man in this age range being a good partner are rare. Sexually they may be what you want, someone who can fuck you for rounds. Personality wise, they may appeal to your goofy side. But dick and jokes get old fast when your other needs aren’t being met. You would literally have to help grow him into the man you want and be willing to put up with all kinds of mistakes, cheating, and mood swings that are bound to happen while he’s trying to find himself. Even if you do succeed in taming a man like this and nurturing him until his potential pays off, it’s a 90% chance that he will take all that potential to his next relationship and be a much better man for his next woman than he ever was to you.

Men 25-32: This is where men should start to get serious about their future. For the first time life is applying pressure as they can’t get away with the bullshit they used to. More bills, more responsibilities, and the realization that they can’t hide behind mommy anymore. This is the biggest state of depression as some men fold under pressure and get desperate. This is a risk and reward period as either you will find a man who recognizes that women aren’t just sex toys and actually value relationships or you’ll find men who are looking to replace their mother with a new woman who will baby him, spoil him, and take care of him while he still tries to figure out his path. If you have ever met a woman guilty of “taking care of a man” I bet he’s in this age range.

Men 33-39: The golden era of dating is the mid to late 30s as this is where the majority of men will settle into their careers. No longer are they chasing dreams of being a rapper or trying to run some half-ass business. They have either made it on their own or settled into a company. Now that they’re financially settling in, they realize that they may have fucked up in their 20s. At this age they’re looking for women that remind them of exes or “friends” that they let get away. At the same time the relationship maturity may not be here. They say they want a girlfriend, but don’t know how to be a boyfriend. This is the hardest age range to date because you get those 2-5 year relationships that go nowhere. You get engagements that end with you giving the ring back because he’s not the man you thought he was. Sadly, this is the age where a lot of men get married only to divorce or have children they really didn’t want. Yes, they learned lessons that will make them better men, but now they have all kinds of baggage,  bills, and responsibilities that could make them less than desirable for most women.

Men 40+: This is the age range where you’ll find the wealthiest men as well as the most mature. These guys have played the games, gotten all the pussy they will ever needed, and figured out their career situation. The Golden Pond of wealthy men who know how to treat women. This is where MOST of you should be dating but you're probably afraid, don't know how to attract them, or don't know what to do with these guys once you have their attention... it's time to Spartan the fuck up!

Today I’m going to go through how to attract older men, how to connect with them emotionally, and most importantly how to handle your own doubts and the judgement that comes from family or friends. Be warned that ALL older men are going to be quality catches. Sadly there are predators who feast on young women, get them pregnant, mindfuck them, and literally ruin those women’s lives because they are more savvy and know how to manipulate and gaslight better than guys your own age. I’m going to show you how to side step the trash and snatch the souls of the high value ones who bring more to the table than you can ever imagine. Are you ready to level up? Let’s begin…

The first step is knowing how to attract an older man and what to say in terms of conversations. Let me put you up on game, men want...

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